Taking the plunge with providers & clients

I honestly think it would be pretty rare to find a hobbyist that didn't have preferences. If a person just wants to fuck whatever moves-- they could just pick up any old slag at the bar... most gents who hobby-- do so to have the security of not having to call them or see them again if they don't want to-- and to be able to perhaps spend time with a lady that wouldn't be so easy to attain in the "real world" (at least, not without a considerable amount of time and effort). Sometimes its more of a matter of looks. Sometimes its more of a matter of personality. Sometimes its a mix of the two.



As far as a rate goes-- I've always loved the saying "You're not paying her for her time, you're paying her to leave at the end"

... and to be able to perhaps spend time with a lady that wouldn't be so easy to attain in the "real world" (at least, not without a considerable amount of time and effort). Sometimes its more of a matter of looks. Sometimes its more of a matter of personality. Sometimes its a mix of the two.
As far as a rate goes-- I've always loved the saying "You're not paying her for her time, you're paying her to leave at the end" Originally Posted by Grace Preston

Agreed. There is an element of "screwing up" with a preference towards more attractive providers and for me an unattractive or risky provider is not worth taking the plunge.

If the prostitute is attractive enough I can work with just about anything.

I prefer at least a sprinkle of BSC....

Crazy is fine, anything is better than entitled or bitchy.

Boring and low iq is also awful.

I enjoy intelligence as well, or at least the ability to speak reasonably well.

Fat and homely I can't work with under any circumstances.

I'd snapchat with that little Minx

Crazy is fine, anything is better than entitled or bitchy.

Boring and low iq is also awful.

I enjoy intelligence as well, or at least the ability to speak reasonably well.

Fat and homely I can't work with under any circumstances. Originally Posted by Next Best Thing

In my personal world... I'll take a sense of humor and IQ with looks of a 5 over dumb and boring with looks of a 9 any day of the week. But, we women tend not to be quite as visual as the menfolk.

Women just see dollar signs. All of em'

Women just see dollar signs. All of em' Originally Posted by winn dixie

Meh-- while that is very true in the hobby-- and honestly, isn't that the fucking point in the hobby.....


In the real world, a lot of ladies in this business tend to end up with lazy men that they end up supporting. I've always found it to be a strange and fascinating dynamic.

Meh-- while that is very true in the hobby-- and honestly, isn't that the fucking point in the hobby.....


In the real world, a lot of ladies in this business tend to end up with lazy men that they end up supporting. I've always found it to be a strange and fascinating dynamic. Originally Posted by Grace Preston

Those aint men.

Those aint men. Originally Posted by winn dixie

There are some who would take it further and argue that men that date sex workers aren't "real men". I have no skin in that game-- I just don't date when I'm actively working in this business.

I prefer at least a sprinkle of BSC.... Originally Posted by Paulie Rockstar

That brings back both clips, a guys hot crazy matrix about gals, and the 2nd, the gals almost identical response about guys.

[QUOTE=BlondeLexi;1062724267]Turned away? No. But I have certainly made my fair share of men take a shower in my presence before we begin. I have a strict hygiene policy. If I’m expected to be fresh as a daisy, then SO ARE YOU! I require light freshening up before play time. If that doesn’t do the trick, I have absolutely no qualms telling the client he needs to shower before we take it further.
Some clients decline the mouthwash part of my clean up routine since they don’t want to kiss but it’s still required…I don’t want to smell your bad breath, gingivitis, cavities and smoke breath.
No schwetty balls. No skid marks. No smelling like smoke. No smelling like cheese between the folds. And you won’t get “turned away”.[/QUOTE

No one should have to put up with poor hygene on either side.

In the real world, a lot of ladies in this business tend to end up with lazy men that they end up supporting. I've always found it to be a strange and fascinating dynamic. Originally Posted by Grace Preston

Self loathing and codependency

comms!

...wells yer ...plastic man ...sure be codependents withs ...ya!

...boths jimmies an funnels needs ...each ...others ins whats mr ...spock woulds call a symbiotic relationship