KC gents are awesome! The FEW gals that respond to reference request are cool too did I say FEW lol.So you know i had to come back asap for the awesome .BBQ wink wink lol. Please view my website for updates xoxo Originally Posted by Star HollowdayI"ll agree that its kind of annoying, AND unprofessional when people don't respond to messages. Kind of like when you send a lady a request on P411 and she reads it, and checks your profile, but never messages anything back. Just sayin. You decide who you see, BUT be professional about it. It will benefit you in the long run...
This is difficult by the fact that the only way for screening is by reference. She rejected me because I had one reference, rejected someone else because their references did not respond, even if they had more than one. I think she should choose another path to screening. On the other hand, Whether what she has is enough for her is up to her. Originally Posted by amnskymYes it certainly is up to her. I have about 70 okays and and have deleted more then that from the really old ones as I've been a lifetime member there for 15 years. I don't have an issue with any lady saying no but thank you for your interest. But whats the difference between other providers who don't respond for a reference and someone who looks over your offer, and then just ignores it? Just one gents two cents....