Why not?
Sex is fun.
Dating in today's world sucks.
No long term commitment.
And, if you do your research, you will already know if a provider matches your sexual desire at the time.
The one or two hour marriages simply work out well.
If they change scope into overnights or long weekend things those can be nice as well.
But for me that was once upon just a few years ago.
Frankly, civie dating nowadays is a friggin zoo according to ECG's friends and a few of my mine.
Happy enough home life not to want to deal with a divorce or an affair, but a combination of serious physical and mental health issues mean the sex at home is very infrequent and very bad. I have needs
Unmarried and have met too many civilian women w stupid rules and bad sex. And that’s after the hefty time investment just to find out when finally BCD. I can read reviews and find out if a woman says hard no to CIM or DATY or kissing. Or doesn’t like to BJ at all but will do it. Now I’ll spend 400+ for the above being yeses. Mix in some enthusiastic TUMA eye contact and dirty talk and the sky may be the limit. There are a few other requirements to spend big but those may be controversial and I don’t want the heat.
Saving money by compromising fun isn’t why I am here. My grown kids don’t comm w me so fuck it. No need to save anything for them.
Been sleeping in a deadroom for 27 years. There's nothing about me that would interest a woman save the contents of my wallet. Porn takes care of most of it, but sometimes I just want to feel someone else's skin besides mine in contact with my own.
Several reasons:
Variety
Was in a terrible marriage with little or bad sex
Single father with sole custody of children and hesitant to enter into a relationship as a result