Thoughts on dating a client? Or visversa, dated a provider?

It could happen. I saw a documentary one time where this rich guy from New York was visiting LA and could not handle the stick on a Lotus Esprit. He pulled over and a streetwalker drove him to his hotel. She spent the night and he flew her in his business jet to the opera. And gave her a lot of money for clothes.

She got outed at a polo match and the rich guy and his lawyer got in a fight. But love won out, he found out where she lived and went and rescued her. Wait, she rescued him right back.

So, according to this documentary, it can happen.

from sherry of DFW what you are describing is NOT a documentary
it is a famous movie PRETTY WOMAN starring Julia Roberts and Richard Gere--great film if you can get it on NetFlix
Pretty Woman' turns 35!
Pretty Woman was released in 1990 (specifically March 23, 1990). Julia Roberts received an Academy Award nomination for Best Actress in a Leading Role for her performance in the film at the 63rd Academy Awards (1991).

I read about some rich guy who picked up a provider for a visit and they fell in love and got married. He was the creator of Dell or Cisco, or some computer/tech company from the 1990s- early 2000s.

Now dude lived a VERY out there life. I say lived because he unalived himself in a foreign prison after being accused of murder. Allegedly, he may have killed his abusive stepfather too earlier in his life. I wish I could remember his name. However, his relationship with the ex prostitute was great until then lol.

EDIT:
John McAfee is who I’m talking about.

from sherry of DFW what you are describing is NOT a documentary
it is a famous movie PRETTY WOMAN starring Julia Roberts and Richard Gere--great film if you can get it on NetFlix
Pretty Woman' turns 35!
Pretty Woman was released in 1990 (specifically March 23, 1990). Julia Roberts received an Academy Award nomination for Best Actress in a Leading Role for her performance in the film at the 63rd Academy Awards (1991). Originally Posted by Sherry of DFW

It's based on a true story

from sherry of DFW what you are describing is NOT a documentary Originally Posted by Sherry of DFW

\ sarcasm. To the above responses. LOL, SnackyChan, they are all true stories.

John McAfee, what a legend.

lol

Snacky Chan said what I was going to say. They will make the first move if there is real interest. I've had the pleasure with a few women that wanted to actually date. Each did it different ways. One gave me my money back after a session because she wanted it to feel like a real connection, one asked me to be her plus 1 to a concert, another asked if we could go to a beer tasting event together. The last one other couples at the beer tasting invited us to other events/double dates because we were so good to hang out with.

Just go with it

Snacky Chan said what I was going to say. They will make the first move if there is real interest. I've had the pleasure with a few women that wanted to actually date. Each did it different ways. One gave me my money back after a session because she wanted it to feel like a real connection, one asked me to be her plus 1 to a concert, another asked if we could go to a beer tasting event together. The last one other couples at the beer tasting invited us to other events/double dates because we were so good to hang out with.

Just go with it Originally Posted by CantBuyMeLove

Agreed but understand how you met. Its no question the majority of providers have someone

A provider I used to love seeing and rocked my world got snatched up and got married during her six month visit in Dallas. She was a hot thing.

There are several providers that make me want to get down on one knee too. But how do you even go about asking them out. Originally Posted by imperialTX

Just remember how you met and can you keep her busy.
Some need the company of others and not just one person.
Yes i seen some great ones get picked out but we are here for a timed event and not a life time partner.
i had been seeing a provider for 10 years and poof she was gone, life changes.
She would all ways request me to visit other providers to keep it fresh.

The chances are very low that a long term romantic relationship with a provider you met in the hobby will work out under even the best of circumstances, but the chances against are astronomical if you expect her to continue to sling pussy if y’all get serious…and you had better be able to cover her living expenses if she agrees to quit.

It's fun to think about as part of the fantasy; but for me, it's not just no, but hell no.


There are women I work with that I have little crushes on and I sometimes think about them too: "I wonder if she'd want to leave our spouses, quit our jobs and run away together!" Again, fun to think about, but 100% unrealistic.

Why would you marry a person who's fucking 30+ guys a week?

Why would you marry a person who's fucking 30+ guys a week? Originally Posted by pipe

Surprising number of guys that like to get cucked or really into that reclamation sex. Not my thing, but that is why it is a kink and I try not to judge.

Here is my 2 cent, you do whatever makes happy,
But like everyone here says, your odds make the relationship work is slim to zero. It simply does not end well no matter how well you or lady tries.