Deposits and pics?

Deposits are a definite no with me for obvious reasons. I don’t hobby as often as I like and I see a lot of providers now want a pic if they haven’t seen you before. How does everyone feel about this?

No pic, no deposit.... If I google a ladies name, number, email, etc... and don't get a hit from any review site, I move on... especially if a deposit is required. Nearly all reputable providers will be on a review site of some kind.... and I say nearly, because I do know some ladies who have asked for no reviews, but can easily be verified by others.

Cheers

I ve been burned a few times so no deposits period
I never had good results with giving pics so I don't

I ve been burned a few times so no deposits period
I never had good results with giving pics so I don't

I have required a 50% deposit for every appointment for over a decade and it's funny, the men who don't balk at my rates also don't balk at sending a deposit. *shrug*

I've always required a full legal name and DOB for screening, and since returning from hiatus have started requiring a selfie plus driver's license. Turns out that it's become a thing for multiple men to claim to be be "Bob Smith" to get screened but when verifying their references, some ladies say "Bob" is tall/thin while others say he's short/fat... and still others say he's white with others say AA or Asian. So yeah, I need to know that the "Bob Smith" I screen is actually the person who shows up. Smile for that selfie, "Bob"!

I respect your requirements and process for doing business the way you do Edrienne. I think top notch looking providers like you don't have any issues with a shortage of guys willing to satisfy those requirements especially in big cities like Vegas.

Me personally I am not spending enough money on my trysts to justify sending a deposit or a photo for the type of providers that I am willing to entertain. I get everyone wants to be safe and secured on both ends but there's plenty of providers that aren't requiring that for me to feel it's necessary to do that and if it gets to the point I would rather stick to amps before jeopardizing getting scammed or threatened by the wrong one who would take advantage of that process.

Definitely no deposits!!!!
If a dick pic no biggie

Face pic I usually send Trump and it’s approved. lol.

Say no to the deposit. The provider expects you to trust her yet she doesn’t trust you..,? Please..!! But even more than that.. a deposit is so easy to just ask for and never provide a service.. I’ve even head of well established well reviewed providers skipping out on a deposit ..

InfamousRock, this is part of the beauty of this slice of life... there's a market for everyone on both sides of the aisle.

Some guys prefer higher rates, lower volume, stricter protocols for safety, a largely repeat book of business which builds and maintains a particular reputation for years while other guys feel safer to be lost in the mostly anonymous sea of a high volume, low rate, minimal/no protocol, often fly-by-night type of operation.... or wherever they find themselves in the middle.

Here's to hoping everyone plays safe, smart and with an eye to the entirety of their surroundings (not just the physical aspect). The less a person has to gain, the less they have to lose and we all know the saying regarding those who have little or nothing lose...

I will sometimes do deposits but if the lass is a ghost online then it's a big no for me.

EdrienneCole

I believe what the OP was alluding to is girls in the area who can't be verified, and are asking for Pictures and a deposit. Someone like yourself, who has a presence and reviews from numerous people, its much easier to establish the trust. Tryst is becoming a Scam in many areas, girls just asking for deposits, or trying to have you join their OF, and several people have been burned.

Never, way too many stories of guys losing deposits. If a lady wants to require deposits, fine, a provider can always make up rules they like, no problem. ... But once that deposit money leaves, it sometimes does a magic trick. It disappears.

EdrienneCole

I believe what the OP was alluding to is girls in the area who can't be verified, and are asking for Pictures and a deposit. Someone like yourself, who has a presence and reviews from numerous people, its much easier to establish the trust. Tryst is becoming a Scam in many areas, girls just asking for deposits, or trying to have you join their OF, and several people have been burned. Originally Posted by haya1300

Man please I wouldn't trust her either. All it takes is one time for them say "You know what I don't really feel like fucking, I'm gonna take this suckas money and keep the deposit." I don't care how many reviews someone has.

I ask the question because I contacted a well reviewed provider and all was going well until she asked for a picture. I would never give a deposit but was wondering how others felt about a pic? I only give it a second thought because she is well reviewed and the little head and big head are in conflict over the pic!! ��

I ask the question because I contacted a well reviewed provider and all was going well until she asked for a picture. I would never give a deposit but was wondering how others felt about a pic? I only give it a second thought because she is well reviewed and the little head and big head are in conflict over the pic!! �� Originally Posted by frankly1959

I have never done deposits, never will!!!
I have sent a few pics, but not going to again. If I am too ugly when I get to the room, she can send me away. Funny how some women want our real world information, but they don't give theirs!!!
I am about through with the whole mess of dealing with most of these women. Just texted one woman I have dated numerous times, and got back a text saying "who are you?" If they can't even keep up with who their good clients are, they are not worth dating.