Areas of Improvement

Charles so tell me how am I suppose to tell a gentlemen he has no clue what he is doing when I don't want to hurt his feelings and it's our first time meeting? I have been lucky there have only been one or two that I was thinking OMG where did this guy learn DATY??? Originally Posted by Irish Vixen

Tell him the same way he tells you...usually starts with "OUCH not like that!"

Didn't think DATY could hurt, unless he bit down

Tell ya what helps me is that I put what I like and am looking for in a given time on my p411 profile. It would be nice if the ladies could be a little mire detailed somewhere like their site, p411, here or whatever. That would help too.

Irish Vixen if you want to improve your HJ skills then hit Max Rax up. She is known here in Houston for that among other things

Charles so tell me how am I suppose to tell a gentlemen he has no clue what he is doing when I don't want to hurt his feelings and it's our first time meeting? I have been lucky there have only been one or two that I was thinking OMG where did this guy learn DATY??? Originally Posted by Irish Vixen

Well, you're probably asking someone who fits into the "no clue" category.

I don't know what most guys like, but what I especially like if the lady starts out by asking what I like, but then in turn, tells me what she likes. Tending to be the gentleman, I try to please her first before we get to me.

Now, I would prefer it if she said to me that what I'm doing may do it for other women, but it doesn't do it for her. "Here, let me guide you..." Then, tell me, or guide me with hands or whatever. But I'd rather know that my effort is worth it than staying in the dark.

But that's me. At one session I learned when the session was over that she liked to have the bottoms of her thighs tickled. It was too late at that point to take advantage of that information.

And likely, if you're thinking "OMG, where did this guy learn DATY?" it's likely he didn't. You'd only be doing him a favor by educating him.

[BTW, I hope we wind up in the same place at the same time. I hear I'm never too young to learn.]

In the hobby, I wish the ladies would be more forthright about what they want during the session. I think there's a lot of miscommunication that occurs. Men like to please women. But they may not ask the question about what she likes the most. I think women feel that since it's a transaction she's there to make him happy and put her pleasure on the back burner. What they don't realize is a lot of guys get a great deal of pleasure out of giving pleasure. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Well damn Charles. I must say I am impressed!

Everyone has areas they need to improve on, but if a provider has been sucking dick and giving HJ's wrong for 20+ years, she's not going to suddenly change her technique. I guess the same is true for the guys who have been doing DATY wrong for years. Maybe I'm doing DATY right.... I hope.

Years ago, I bought an oral sex video by Nina Hartley for my wife and I to watch. She said Nina was sucking dick wrong, to which I replied that "Nina sucks dicks for a living, I think she knows how to do it." My wife shook her head and said she wasn't going to do it like that and made me turn it off. Okay then, I guess I'm having the pleasure of London, Valerie, and Brandy to do it like that to me now because she didn't want to learn.

I tried to pay attention to the way Nina said to eat p^$$y.

Everyone has areas they need to improve on, but if a provider has been sucking dick and giving HJ's wrong for 20+ years, she's not going to suddenly change her technique. Originally Posted by pipefitter73

Years ago, I bought an oral sex video by Nina Hartley for my wife and I to watch. She said Nina was sucking dick wrong, to which I replied that "Nina sucks dicks for a living, I think she knows how to do it." My wife shook her head and said she wasn't going to do it like that and made me turn it off. Okay then, I guess I'm getting London, Valerie, and Brandy to do it like that now because she didn't want to learn.

Lmbo! Love it!

Oh Pipe...the things you say lol. I am glad I did not leave the booger sore for a week...just sayin.

London,

Have you ever thought about teaching woman on giving oral sex? I've said this in my review but one thing that put you over the top for me is you change up your technique and even add some new ones.

London,

Have you ever thought about teaching woman on giving oral sex? I've said this in my review but one thing that put you over the top for me is you change up your technique and even add some new ones. Originally Posted by rrabbit6926

My video is already out. Superhead but not as intense...same variations though eh? I figure if I can't fk like a porn star, I have to make up for it other ways.

My video is already out. Originally Posted by London Rayne

I probably won't get my wife to watch that one either IF it comes out. I guess I will just keep it in my private collection.

pipfitter

Originally posted by charlestudor2005 I don't know what most guys like, but what I especially like if the lady starts out by asking what I like, but then in turn, tells me what she likes. Tending to be the gentleman, I try to please her first before we get to me.

Now, I would prefer it if she said to me that what I'm doing may do it for other women, but it doesn't do it for her. "Here, let me guide you..." Then, tell me, or guide me with hands or whatever. But I'd rather know that my effort is worth it than staying in the dark.

But that's me. At one session I learned when the session was over that she liked to have the bottoms of her thighs tickled. It was too late at that point to take advantage of that information.

And likely, if you're thinking "OMG, where did this guy learn DATY?" it's likely he didn't. You'd only be doing him a favor by educating him.

I have to agree 100% on this one charles I could not have said it any better..
Irishvixen I will also say that the key to a good HJ is the change up and communication some D#cks like it this way and I can personally say I like it tight and slow.... all depends on the D#ck....

Didn't think DATY could hurt, unless he bit down Originally Posted by rrabbit6926

It can if you have a really sensitive clit and he/she is not gentle with it.

I wish more guys actually gave a darn about "MY" pleasure. It's all you hear about on the boards, but rarely have I had such great givers except for TN. Those boys are born to daty...geez! Ok a few in Alabama too. Originally Posted by London Rayne

You haven't met me yet. I love daty and even if I don't cum in the session I work really hard to get her bell and that's what its all about for me