I remember when the best locker room trick was to put Nair in a guys' jock. Now you want to do that to yourself? It is a sign of breaching puberty when a man gets hair down there. I'm sure there are plenty of real women that don't expect the gay porn star look. Be clean, and if you are overly hairy and the women in your life think you need to trim it up a bit, go for it. Do not think that looking more androgynous is sexy.
That being said, if it can get you more go for it. Hey, who says men ever dictated fashion? Oops, never mind; I forgot all those fashion designers etc. Better go with what gets it done. Depends on the lady's you are going to want to be with.
Well, for me, hairy is fine! If they are smoother than me, I have to wonder! To me, men are suppose to be hairy when they rub up against the nice, smooth skin of a woman. It's such a turn on for me! And yes, I enjoy bringing out my scissors to trim my "friends" up.....it is so erotic!
I'm not a provider but before a session I usually shave balls and any area where the provider might be going with her mouth or tongue. I also make sure ear hair and nose hairs are trimed. I think that most providers rate us higher if we are not only clean but well "manscaped". I usually take a shower before activities and after. Some even like to watch me shower.
I would prefer that a man stay trimmed if he's bushy, but never shave! You risk irritating the supple skin of your playmate with stubble! Even if it's only a few hours old, the short hairs on your chest can create a very unattractive red lesion on your partner. Besides, I agree with Wet... Men are supposed to be hairy! It's masculine and sexy! Taking a buzzer with a #2(as short as i would reccomend) to your back and chest and pubic areas is completely acceptable. But then again, it's your body... Do what makes you comfortable! And I'll do the rest!
Well, for me, hairy is fine! If they are smoother than me, I have to wonder! To me, men are suppose to be hairy when they rub up against the nice, smooth skin of a woman.