Ladies and Gentlemen,
I want your thoughts and ideas on what you consider to be upscale and high class in a provider.
Originally Posted by Anita Lay
It's not just about the fee. It's not just about the provider's appearance or attire. It's not just about her intelligence or education or how she communicates and interacts with her client and possibly her client's associates. It certainly isn't just about the sex. It's about all of these, and truly upscale providers do their homework so they appear to effortlessly and happily "provide" an interactive, client-focused, amazing - almost joyful - experience.
Miss Manners never published a book illuminating proper etiquette for high class gentleman's companions. There are however a number of books written by successful high end companions that provide insight as to how to conduct yourself both publically and in private. Here are a few things I feel will immediately eliminate you from "high end" consideration: vulgarity, especially in public; upselling of any sort whether done by the provider or the agency; talking about other clients (even in general terms) or discussing how busy you are - or aren't; excessive texting, especially if you tell me what gift to bring or (God forbide) you call me "sweety" or "hun;" and finally, leaving the TV on to provide background ambiance - OMG! These may seem obvious, but it surprises me how often one or more of these basic rules are violated within the first hour of an engagement.
Phrasing Anita's question a different way - can a provider see 4 or 5 clients a day or charge by the hour or even half-hour and still be high end? Surprisingly, I think its possible, but unlikely, especially in the beginning, due to the volume of homework. That said, the most amazing provider I ever saw was able to pull it off. She had an uncanny ability to read people, and say or do just the right thing at the right moment. This isn't to say she didn't do her homework. She regularly and discreetly stayed in touch with her clients by sending personal emails and even occasional phone calls. The level of intimacy this engendered made "the experience" of spending time with her all the more special.
For me, there isn't an all inclusive list of qualities to be a high end companion. Be a lady. Be polite. Always remain focused on giving your client the gift of an incredible (total) experience and your clients will see you as a high end companion.