Tell me what I did wrong

You did but its ok your just starting. If you continue to see backpage ladies with no rep for good service or reviews this kind of stuff will happen. Cash n dash, robbed, beaten are the worst. Consider yourself lucky your first time was just a time waster. Originally Posted by gimme_that

In retrospect, it's kind of funny. The longer it went, the more paranoid I started to get. I had a good bit of cash with me for business and as I sat in the car and started to wonder if something weird was going on, I kept trying to think of places in the car that I could hide the money. I settled on an old McDonald's bag which I shoved under the seat with some miscellaneous trash.

Research newbie, research.

Quick actions will bite you in the ass, and not the good kind of biting.

It takes a master to work BP properly. I would never have driven to the back of the motel. You were lucky!

You didn't do anything wrong! You just picked a high volume provider that is a flake! Not your fault! Hell some of them need air traffic control to keep the guys circling the hotel. Shake it off, it happens to all of us!

Research newbie, research.

Quick actions will bite you in the ass, and not the good kind of biting. Originally Posted by pyramider

+1 I would have left after the "changing hotels" comment. Sounds like you were lucky as hell for your first try, you got to leave intact with your cash and no special jewelery to wear
At least now you know better ..Good Luck

I think we should talk about all the things she did wrong. Because you sound like the angel in this situation.

I agree BP appears to be very hit or miss. While I am still new I haven't used it really, nor do I plan to. I do look at it and use it as part of my research on who to see, but if all I have is a BP ad, a pic, and a phone number that isn't enough for me. I would much rather see a known provider then fuck around with the gamble that is BP.

I think we should talk about all the things she did wrong. Because you sound like the angel in this situation. Originally Posted by anita

Do not feed the newbies!

There are a lot of gem's in the rough on BP.Single moms looking for extra cash or collage girls trying to make ends meet etc.The newbie amateur girl's ads have a different look to them most of the time.I have had some awesome dates with this type. Sometimes a few weeks later there gone it was not experience they thought it was going to be. I am sure there are other guys like me that like the adrenaline rush of this type of date.

I agree with the others who said you did nothing wrong. You waited longer than she deserved to be waited for. The key thing is you learned from this experience. Take the advice you have gotten on here and you will be fine. Happy Hobbying.

Do not feed the newbies! Originally Posted by pyramider

Whats up with the need to be an elitist jerkoff in nearly every thread? I just don't get it. You have a chance to bring something meaningful to the conversation by sharing your knowledge and you piss it away time and again.

Darlin you did nothing wrong she was a wacka doodle and has no idea how to run her business , Im so sorry she wasted your time, but stick to well reviewed ladies and you will have no problem..good luck