Popular Misconceptions About Providers

When it comes to personal information I don't worry. If they don't like the photos then they can move on.

The misconception that all providers lie about their age and weight.

My weight is accurate to within a few pounds, and I keep my age up to date on my own website and on profiles here and elsewhere. Its annoying to see how many men automatically assume that all providers lie about their age and weight. Should I deduct 10 pounds and 10 years so that my "assumed" provider age and weight are the same as my actual age and weight?? Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

5. That we don't honestly care about what clients want. I don't think you could do this for very long if you really hated it and them. Originally Posted by Giveumyhart

I have a problem with this contention. I think most ladies really care about what clients want...for an hour. After that, they could care less.

I have a problem with this contention. I think most ladies really care about what clients want...for an hour. After that, they could care less. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

That's a contention I have a contention with, and I contend some of us have more retention of our attention and that this apprehension deserves suspension or at least dissension and better comprehension.

Huh?

I believe many of us, especially the ladies who specialize, as I do, in longer sessions and actual companionship, do form friendships with our regular clients. I know that I keep in touch with several of mine in between visits by email and phone just to see how they're doing, and have even visited some in the hospital.

In a way, I believe the amount of "caring" may have to do with how the lady sees herself, as hooker, escort, companion, mistress (and no, not THAT kind), courtesan, and how the gentleman views her. He's really the one who sets the type of care and contact he wants before, during, and afterward.

fancy you say the best things...and I consider myself a courtesan and I have Miss Veronica Franco to thank for the way I am...

I have a problem with this contention. I think most ladies really care about what clients want...for an hour. After that, they could care less. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Wow Pouty McGee.

As long as the concern is genuine during the session, why does it matter what she thinks after?

It doesn't matter because it's just the appearance of concern.

Lovely! A circular argument. Enjoy yourself.

This may have been mentioned already but one popular misconception is that providers don't know how to manage money. I'm sure this mostly comes from the girls that have pimps or drug users. Some people might not realize that for some this hobby isn's just about getting that next fix, its a real job. Some providers pay there way thru school and other just to put food on the table for thier families.

Lovely! A circular argument. Enjoy yourself. Originally Posted by SillyGirl

Nice tactic. When you can't deal with the substance of an argument, you attack it as "circular."

I think one of the biggest misconceptions of people in th hobby both provider and hobbiest is that somehow we are defunct and lacking an integral skill so we delve into a dirty underworld of sex, money and drugs. I've talked to a few people and apparently those three all go hand in hand.

another misconception about providers is we have no self worth and we'll do anything for a buck. Survey says: that's a lie!

That we sit in a room somewhere all dressed up just waiting for you to message or call.
I have a busy full "Real Life" too.

But set an appointment in advance and I will slip you in...LOL

Nice tactic. When you can't deal with the substance of an argument, you attack it as "circular." Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

And now YOU are committing another logical fallacy.


When I say "concern in session is genuine" and your argument against it is "no its not" there is no substance. I'm not going to go back and forth with you with the "yes it is" "no it isn't". If this is your attitude then I guess for YOU, the concern in session isn't genuine. And that sucks for you. Maybe if you weren't so negative the women you pay to fuck might genuinely care about what you want.

I don't like how guys get upset when I am not available on their terms for incall. Good thing is: I have a great college education and a great job and do this HOBBY as a HOBBY. I also have a family and many friends that consume my attention and freetime SO with that being said, I am very selective on who I choose to see and when I want to see people....some guys take that the wrong way....but if you are my regular friend....and I like you....I will make you a priority....MWAH.

I think that as long as a provider spells out her working time availability then there is no way there can be any expectations as to a quick meeting or last minute. It's the ones that plainly put in their ads when they are available and then are not on a continuing basis that kinda irks me but there is always someone available if you look. Like Olivia says she has a life other than this and it's a hobby only then if your times match up great. If not get over it.

That's a contention I have a contention with, and I contend some of us have more retention of our attention and that this apprehension deserves suspension or at least dissension and better comprehension.

Huh?

I believe many of us, especially the ladies who specialize, as I do, in longer sessions and actual companionship, do form friendships with our regular clients. I know that I keep in touch with several of mine in between visits by email and phone just to see how they're doing, and have even visited some in the hospital.

In a way, I believe the amount of "caring" may have to do with how the lady sees herself, as hooker, escort, companion, mistress (and no, not THAT kind), courtesan, and how the gentleman views her. He's really the one who sets the type of care and contact he wants before, during, and afterward.
Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

Fancy... That was pure awesomeness...