Leaving a tip

I generally get tips in advance too. I always appreciate it. And I am one to receive my donation up front and count it right then and there. And that lets me know he thinks alot of me, and I rock his world. If a guy brings exat donation I'm thankfull too. Its always great when some doesn't short you lol.

I always tip upfront with the donation...just incase I have a senior moment and forget...lol I just think it's best to get the formalities out of the way first so the time spent is on each other and not a questionable donation amount...ijs

I personally don't feel that way at all but that's just me. Before or after it's always appreciated . Originally Posted by Paven

I didn't say it wasn't appreciated... I just the gesture is sort of lost. I don't tip unless I think it's warranted. If I get it afterward, I know they're not just tipping to try get anything 'extra' out of me before the session starts.

Usually tip up front with gifts, always nice to bring something with you. Originally Posted by geecue

I do the same. I've found that a gift--if thoughfully picked out--usually has a better responce than the equivalent dollar amout. When I have given a tip in cash I haven't noticed a big difference if I did it before or after. Most the ladies I see don't even look at the envelope until the end of our date.

If I knew a lady had a preference for gift/tip or before/after I'd abide by her preference since it doesn't make a big difference to me (though I do enjoy seeing the truly-surprised-grin when I've hit a home run with the gift selection).

The only person that I have ever tipped was my ATF I(Kind of) tip her every time I see her, but even though we both know it's going to happen it's always after everything has been done.

A tip prior will certainly have the makings of being construed as a bribe, after has the makings of being construed as a thank you.

I always tip when deserved but never before. I have tipped as much as the donation itself and more and have had sessions where the donation ended up being way too much for the service.
It's just like anywhere you tip. Good service gets one and bad service doesn't

I always tip when deserved but never before. I have tipped as much as the donation itself and more and have had sessions where the donation ended up being way too much for the service.
It's just like anywhere you tip. Good service gets one and bad service doesn't Originally Posted by burkalini

I concur

I do the same. I've found that a gift--if thoughfully picked out--usually has a better responce than the equivalent dollar amout. When I have given a tip in cash I haven't noticed a big difference if I did it before or after. Most the ladies I see don't even look at the envelope until the end of our date.

If I knew a lady had a preference for gift/tip or before/after I'd abide by her preference since it doesn't make a big difference to me (though I do enjoy seeing the truly-surprised-grin when I've hit a home run with the gift selection). Originally Posted by Old-T

I agree. The thought and consideration that goes into a perfectly selected gift leaves a pretty big impression (which is pretty important for those who enjoy leaving/receiving that type of impression).

Eventhough a provider offers me a discount for being a regular, I always pay the nondiscounted rate with a generous tip that includes the room...tjm

I prefer to pay after services have been rendered.For legal reason this just makes sense to me,but I can see where some provider would have a problem with it.I usually tip after the fack, at this point I dont think there is a need for the envelopes and that stuff.If the provider goes above and beyond the call of duty I'll leave her a tip.It depends on my pocket book, the girl, and how good the service is.If she gives me good service I give her the rate asked for(300 hour is a worth good service I think)If I see her again I pay the asked price.If I get bad service I dont go back, but I'm usually a slow learner.If her rates are low I might tip up front but that has coast me on more than a few occasion.

I've only had a couple of visits where the gentleman tipped afterwords. Usually, the man has done some research and knows what he's about to encounter. When a tip is received, it's usually included in my initial gift. Once or twice I've received a modest tip, thanked him very sweetly, and then, when I was putting away my gift I realized a tip had already been included. The few who've tipped afterwords have discretely, but noticeably placed my surprise token on the nightstand or table on their exit.

A friendly tip though, if you decide to tip afterwords for whatever reason, excellent encounter, just your policy.. Try to always go to the restroom and separate whatever you wish to surprise your sweetheart with. Instead of subjecting either of us to the sort of uncomfortable and awkward moment of searching for, choosing, and hand delivering. Those kinds of transactions just give me an icky feeling for various reasons. We should all practice the art of subtleties. Besides, who doesn't like surprises? I for one, am a big fan. It kinda diminishes the POP of excitement from getting my reward for excellence if you do it right in front of me. Life lesson. <3

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Didit, don't feel like you NEED to leave a tip! It most certainly is NOT the standard. These days I read about how guys are bitching what providers charge, most inparticular new providers. Ladies as a rule complain about how often hobbyist try to negotiate their prices. Find a provider your happy with, have fun. If you want to leave a tip or bring a gift thats great. Personally, the best tip you could ever leave is setting another appointment!

A repeat visit with a nice gift is the best tip!!!

I prefer to pay after services have been rendered.For legal reason this just makes sense to me,but I can see where some provider would have a problem with it. Originally Posted by SSDDIN903

It makes sense if the lady didn't screen you or the lady you're meeting isn't reputable, and you're worried about the police busting down the door. Otherwise you're being rude and you can make a lady very nervous and cause tension in a session. You should be at least confident that you're not going to get arrested or robbed before walking into a situation.

@Outdoorsman, I agree with you 100 percent. A tip should not be a driver to do a good job, or be an indicator of a good or bad client in this industry. But the ones that do are very memorable.

To me, trinkets of appreciation and tipping are personal touches, and I think it speaks to the personality of a man who seeks to differentiate himself in a woman's thoughts.