Upstate Ladies ...

It's funny how all of us guys have our theories, myself included, but none of the ladies have decided to share their reasons.

Make no mistake though, they read every line written here.

Upstate ladies,

Why don't ya'll participate on the icky more? . Originally Posted by pyramider

Many are too dumb to read and write...

Peeking in.... "Hello"

Perhaps they just don't buy into the idea that being referred to as a hooktard is cute. Originally Posted by Doove

haha what total bullshit....wheres GP and his old signature line doove quote.??.I gotta find that one it was hilarious!! Cmon GP, time to participate!!

It's funny how all of us guys have our theories, myself included, but none of the ladies have decided to share their reasons.

Make no mistake though, they read every line written here. Originally Posted by mwebber

they will in small settings. As in pm, email, phone, small M&G, and before or after BCD's. Not all that ask will get answers. mmmm most in this thread so far would.

I love that a few will PM or call me to blow off steam. Telling me off is better than going after who they were angry at. mmmm even if it was me LOL

And yup, every word. Even if not or looks that way on the board.

miss ya

The reason the ladies don't contribute is there is no upside for them to do so. It's fine to have healthy debate, but, IMHO the comments of the ladies have unilaterally been attacked unmercifully. For every one of them (the ladies) there are several of us who do nothing but show disrespect for their views. You don't have to agree with them, and if you dsagree, you can do that without being disagreeable or offensive. I guess some think of the ladies as people, but most treat them as things. They are people with feelings, at least the way I see it.

The reason the ladies don't contribute is there is no upside for them to do so. It's fine to have healthy debate, but, IMHO the comments of the ladies have unilaterally been attacked unmercifully. For every one of them (the ladies) there are several of us who do nothing but show disrespect for their views. You don't have to agree with them, and if you dsagree, you can do that without being disagreeable or offensive. I guess some think of the ladies as people, but most treat them as things. They are people with feelings, at least the way I see it. Originally Posted by qixerotic

that right there is how one feels that I have never had BCD with. But has met me for just drinks a few times. I bet more than one feels that on the board and if meeting for mmmm whatever.

on another note:
Thank god for the one or two I play shmb checkers with.
As I miss cat and mouse with summerwaves. even when I was the mouse.

Mabey their at colledge

haha what total bullshit....wheres GP and his old signature line doove quote.??.I gotta find that one it was hilarious!! Originally Posted by JONBALLS

Maybe you can find that one when you get done finding the post where i quoted Rush and tried to pass it off as my own comment. Or something.

Let me help ya out with this one.

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=279693

Not sure "hooker" is the same as "hooktard", but we'll leave that for the readers to decide.

If I were a provider, I might not feel very comfortable participating in this male-dominated, shock-jock-infested "coed" forum.

If I were a provider, I might not feel very comfortable participating in this male-dominated, shock-jock-infested "coed" forum. Originally Posted by jackfengshui

That goes for me too. The reality is that all to often the ladies get bashed for non-offensive comments and that drives them away.

Attempting to be civil isn't that difficult and being civil ... well it's easier for some then for others.

Attacks though should not be tolerated and so the gentle warnings go to both the hobbyists and the providers!

DD

well I also miss the postings of one of the female shock jocks. She is fun to have a drink with.
mmm pointed for using a supplied by eccie smiley.

Maybe you can find that one when you get done finding the post where i quoted Rush and tried to pass it off as my own comment. Or something.

Let me help ya out with this one.

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=279693

Not sure "hooker" is the same as "hooktard", but we'll leave that for the readers to decide. Originally Posted by Doove

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=312512&page=2 http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...7&postcount=27

Will the real providers step up!

did I post where this thread came from. there is more female reply's in it.

Doove, what could get you to rochester for a drink?

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=312512&page=2 http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...7&postcount=27 Originally Posted by JONBALLS

No idea what you're talking about.

Again.