Profile Of A Provider

I'm new to this. However, I honestly do like to fuck strangers.

I also connect and am not emotionally detached. I know the connection is a paid one and it breaks once I leave. When I'm there it's real though. Originally Posted by RebeccafromUT

Okay, folks, we've got a winner!

Here is a girl who admits to like fucking strangers!

So why is that?

Is it just to let your "bad girl" side out?

This is what happens when you combine psychobabble with masochism. It ain't pretty. But, but course, like an idiot, I am feeding the beast. In the words of one of the premier philosophers of our time - DUH!

Okay, folks, we've got a winner!

Here is a girl who admits to like fucking strangers!

So why is that?

Is it just to let your "bad girl" side out?
Originally Posted by Fast Gunn

Wth is wrong with you? Why do you keep asking why? Just pay lay and go away dude simple concept!

FG =

I have no idea where to even begin..........

Are you attempting to profile an entire group of business women across the country as one entity?

you are quoted as saying "Okay, I would say that the profile of a typical provider would be a young and attractive girl,but a few remain to service the older customer"

A few what?

I think I dare you to say what a few what are....

In my opinion, you cannot profile providers in as much as you cannot profile an entire segment of society. Why would you want to? I take from your thread that you are trying to group ladies into a certain category in your mind. Dangerous thinking to try to.

I will make it easy for you; providers are the lady you see walking across the campus of a school, the lady pushing her shopping cart down the aisle trying to decide what to make for dinner for husband and kids; the female executive power walking down the sidewalk to catch the subway to her next meeting; the lady whose son just called to tell her she is now a grandmother.

Here is your profile. They are all Ladies.

And I spell that with a Capitol L.

Good day........ Originally Posted by runswithscissors

Thank you, you nailed the average or typical provider to a tee....
I think so many people forget we are just normal people with normal
lives...we just earn our money in a different manner....runswithscissors
you're someone I could really like and respect...

It becomes a little difficult to tell the difference. My wife (was) a provider, my old girlfriends were providers, hell even the woman i lived with was a provider.

Everyone has a reason for being who they are,but I will be damned if I will ever look down my nose at any provider. They are and truly always will be, a lady.

A good friend told me once , that every woman has her price,some want marriage. After 30 years I have found that is a pretty heavy price to pay.

I always thought that was a profound statement.

Looks like Fail Gunn has a new stalking victim...

unless one conducts a very LARGE scale survey of women who are in this business/sub-culture, i seriously doubt that any statement that one makes about said women would represent a majority of them. and the same goes for men in this business/sub-culture. so, any generality made is more than likely wrong.

if you attend any of the social gatherings, you will see such a wide variety of women and men. we are all people, with our likes, dislikes, criteria, insecurities, dependencies, cravings, preferences, idioms, etc. we are all different but the same - we are all human beings.

and vive la difference!!! cos if we all liked the same thing, we'd all be in the same place at the same time having the same kind of cosmic orgasm. talk about a tsunami effect :^)

I don't see why it is not readily apparent to everyone that there are indeed legitimate categories of people in this world.

Take for example, professional football players.

They are all different, but you can still put together a profile that adequately describes a major sector of that group.

Can we all focus on the issue and address it like adults?

When all you do is sling mud then it makes you look like a total doofus!

I don't see why it is not readily apparent to everyone that there are indeed legitimate categories of people in this world.

Take for example, professional football players.

They are all different, but you can still put together a profile that adequately describes a major sector of that group.

Can we all focus on the issue and address it like adults?

When all you do is sling mud then it makes you look like a total doofus!
Originally Posted by Fast Gunn

Hmm... You don't see why it isn't "readily apparent" to us that we need to be categorized? Okay. Well, we don't see why it isn't readily apparent to you that your inquiry is frankly not that interesting, and somewhat insulting to some of us.

And don't patronize your fellow board members. We are adults, and I only see one person on this thread acting like a child because people won't play his way. And did you really just throw out a "doofus"?

Now please excuse me while I take my share of the mud being slung, don a bikini, and find someone to wrestle with. Sounds much more interesting to me.

Hmmm? Well, when you put it that way, mud wrestling does has a certain dirty charm all its self too, doesn't it?

But, I think jell-0 might be easier to work with if that is your inclination.

I have no idea where to even begin..........

Are you attempting to profile an entire group of business women across the country as one entity?

you are quoted as saying "Okay, I would say that the profile of a typical provider would be a young and attractive girl,but a few remain to service the older customer"

A few what?

I think I dare you to say what a few what are....

In my opinion, you cannot profile providers in as much as you cannot profile an entire segment of society. Why would you want to? I take from your thread that you are trying to group ladies into a certain category in your mind. Dangerous thinking to try to.

I will make it easy for you; providers are the lady you see walking across the campus of a school, the lady pushing her shopping cart down the aisle trying to decide what to make for dinner for husband and kids; the female executive power walking down the sidewalk to catch the subway to her next meeting; the lady whose son just called to tell her she is now a grandmother.

Here is your profile. They are all Ladies.

And I spell that with a Capitol L.

Good day........ Originally Posted by runswithscissors

KKA

you have answered your own question darling

our category
Professional PROVIDER

I don't see why it is not readily apparent to everyone that there are indeed legitimate categories of people in this world.

Take for example, professional football players.

They are all different, but you can still put together a profile that adequately describes a major sector of that group.

Can we all focus on the issue and address it like adults?

When all you do is sling mud then it makes you look like a total doofus!


Originally Posted by Fast Gunn

“I thought I might rattle a few cages with my inquiry, but I am a risk-taker myself and I know that my intentions are honorable in seeking only to better understand the situation.”
WHY???


“I wanted to find out a little more about what goes on in providers heads in regards to their customers.”
WHY???? You are crazy scary weird! Seriously dude, damn!

“I think it takes a lot more courage to be a provider than it does to be a hobbyist,”
I think it’s a draw, just in different aspects. BOTH sides can have much to lose!
“ but if we both understood each other better, the sessions would be more satisfying.”
All one needs to know is the rules of the “game”.

“From my perspective, hobbyists could learn more about emotional detachment from providers and providers could learn a little more about sensitivity from the hobbyists that are so inclined.”
WTF! Seriously now, this is a fantasy, a game, a world where thought is useless and enjoyment is key. This is a playground to have fun and leave the reality of the real world behind for a certain amount of time. After that it is back to the real world and each owns SO and life- that is where depth of thought belongs- not HERE in this FANTASY world! Period.

“Sometimes, I get the feeling that we are just trying to out-flank and out-maneuver each other instead of trying to better understand each other.”
It is NOT about out- anything with anyone. The client- provider relationship is simple to understand. There are rules and boundaries. It is called the hobby. A fantasy. There is no room for analysis. It is meant to be fun however temporary it is. It is about the moment, Mr. Freud. Men/Women seek out providers to let loose, to let go, and just to have fun and get some- not much depth to that. It is a business but like many people- we can also love and enjoy our jobs, so what is wrong with that? And what in the holy hell is so difficult about understanding that?

“Is building trust with a provider really just a hopeless task ?”
Ummmm, LMAO! There must always be a certain amount of trust in ANY relationship. I, personally, will only trust a client with a certain amount of info or anything specific. I don’t divulge just anything with just anyone. If it is a client I have known for quite sometime and we have shared a more open type relationship I may trust more and vice versa. It is about ones personal comfort level. No one is alike as they are like people- unique in their own way. Generalizations rarely work to create or prove any logical thing. Generalizations are general and not concrete therefore BS. The only REAL trust a client needs is to know a provider is going to be safe, discreet and well damn you know- or you SHOULD if you are a member here. And for providers, we want to trust a client is who he says he is and that he is safe etc. etc. etc. Other than that, there is no NEED to KNOW the inner hearts, minds and souls of a provider or client- that is for the real world and the SO- it is NOT at all suitable for a business relationship. That is what THIS is- a business!

Just my .02.

KKA


Originally Posted by Fast Gunn

KKA

I don't see why it is not readily apparent to everyone that there are indeed legitimate categories of people in this world.

Take for example, professional football players.

They are all different, but you can still put together a profile that adequately describes a major sector of that group.

Can we all focus on the issue and address it like adults?

When all you do is sling mud then it makes you look like a total doofus!
Originally Posted by Fast Gunn

FG-- You start a thread based on one of your assumptions. Most everyone on this board disagrees with your basic assumption. Yet, with this post you try to push your assumption again. I'm sure you'll get the same response.

Remember the old saying: to assume makes an ASS out of U and ME. Only all the MEs on this board are not buying into your assumption. That leaves only U as the ASS.