provider that can teach a young man

i am looking for a provider that will teach my nephew , all the 101 stuff , he is 18 and needs a facts of life / gfe schooling and not a just 1 pop and out thing , he is a total newbie in life , and wife is complaining about him JO ing , he has a big johnson and we can hear his GF saying" no stop "and he is haveing to JO after she leaves , i have given him the talk that some girls just can't do it / take a big one " to young/not ready" , he is very ready for a less than 30 provider to show him the ropes , but i want him to get the whole 101 & not break the bank , BP chicks are out , who can show him the ropes ????? as he would not do an older lady , he heads off to UT in the spring and i have told him when he gets out of the small town setting , that size don't matter , who can teach him the art of sex, or should he just learn on his own ?
Tall_Cat81's Avatar
I wish I had an uncle like you back then. I will say this though, no one taught me. I had to learn as I went a long which provided me with the best and worst experience at times. Your nephew going to have a blast in Austin next year.
I wish I had an uncle like you back then Originally Posted by Tall_Cat81
uncle milo promised that i would life coach after his dad passed , but can't help first hand , & aunt betty and GM mary are clueless on sex , and think self service is dirty ,his mom is MIA ??? i am just trying to jump start him on how to show him & his lovers the true joy of sex and get the schooling done
Milo, you are a good man. And if you can pull this off, this young lad will thank you for the rest of his life. An experienced woman can be so very good for a young man...don't ask me how I know. LOL…hell, they’re really good for an old man too. Now the hard part will be finding the right young lady to do him right. But with so much talent on ECCIE, you should be able to come up with the right person.
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I think Wicked Milf would set him straight...
I think she must be in her 20s. Hell when I was 17 a girl of 23 seemed a lot "older." But who would be a good pick? I don't know. I suppose someone in their early 30s might work. Someone in their 30s might have more patience and be better for him. But, I wouldn't go over 30. A lot depends on him. I think he would need to see some pics and see what turns him on. Like the ECCIE showcase type pics.

Gosh Milo, hopefully you are getting some PMs on this.
Personally I wouldn't intoduce him to a provider...let him find his own way...
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Your 100% incorrect, Elephant. I wouldn't want to set him straight as I don't see young guys. (as your personally well aware).
Especially that young. I'm not attracted to nor comfortable with young guys. I enjoy mature men!!

I also agree with another poster. I don't feel it's appropriate to send him out to learn about sex etc from a provider.
If he's jacking off a lot. So what. That's part of life and what men & boys do every day til the end of time. How are providers going to get him to stop jacking off? They won't. Rather they may make it worse.
If his penis is a bit on the large side and he's causing his GF pain during sex.
Then it's between those two to communicate as to what positions work best for them (to enjoy being intimate). It's something he's going to encounter with any female he meets. (it's part of life).
In fact sending him out at such a young age to see providers will more than likely cause him to be more sexual and perhaps become addictive to the hobby. Not good for someone so young and going off to college.
As his uncle. Having a guy to guy talk and giving him advice would be best. As he may look up to you more for that reason than if you were to send him to have sex with providers.
Good luck to that young guy.


I think Wicked Milf would set him straight... Originally Posted by Elephant
If his penis is a bit on the large side and he's causing his GF pain during sex.
Then it's between those two to communicate as to what positions work best for them (to enjoy being intimate). It's something he's going to encounter with any female he meets. (it's part of life).
In fact sending him out at such a young age to see providers will more than likely cause him to be more sexual and perhaps become addictive to the hobby. Not good for someone so young and going off to college.
As his uncle. Having a guy to guy talk and giving him advice would be best. As he may look up to you more for that reason than if you were to send him to have sex with providers.
Good luck to that young guy. Originally Posted by Wicked Milf
WM -- Well stated. A young man faced with a choice between the difficulties of communication in relationships, on one hand; and instant gratification, on the other, could quickly become addicted to the easy alternative.
This is a no brainer...I nominate Sonya!
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I think the key is education. Teaching a young man proper etiquette in dealing with women and associated intricacies; both anatomical and physiological processes’. I would avoid the use of escorts, providers or whatever euphemism they are using. The true fun is in the pursuit and eventual conquest. Paraphrase of course but: “Veni, vidi vici!”
Paraphrase of course but: “Veni, vidi vici!” Originally Posted by suks2bu
Don't you mean: "Vidi, vici, veni" ("I saw, I conquered, I came)?
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Don't you mean: "Vidi, vici, veni" ("I saw, I conquered, I came)? Originally Posted by GaryVee
LMAO
Gary, naw...he meant "veni"...he came first. (lol)