You might be surprised at some of our "understandings", RN1204. Might wish to tone down your condescending tone.
Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers
I am not sure how you deduce that my tone is condescending in the pure sense of the word. Assuming is the more appropriate word, and I do not mind be branded with that label -- or any other for that matter. I am indifferent when it comes to what people think of me, although I make effort to be entreating and friendly. I wish not to strive with anyone here. I do not start trouble, and neither do I run from it.
The point in my statement was that the one responded to was based on
one civilian's encounter with military personnel which is
usually limited. I will throw you a bone and admit that my statement was opinionated as well, but it did have first hand experience and military comradery behind it. There is not need to take offense with me and label me as condescending because I have an opinion about an opinion.
If you wish to maintain the idea that I am condescending, I have no control over that and no worry for the matter either. I am a very nice person unless substantially offended, and that occasion is sparsely encountered. I attempt to be friendly to all. If you will notice, my original post to the person
who is stealing ended with the comment that, "although I am not...to be condescending toward you." I am opinionated, of a certainty, but I do not consider myself better than anyone else by no means, and I certainly do not wish to convey that conception. I will admit that my writings are sometimes blunt, but the purpose is not to be unkind. I suppose I should take more thought of the potential perception of the things I say. They are benign, although opinionated, notwithstanding.
I do hope that you have have not called me out as being condescending for having an
opinion that differed from yours and others because you are a moderator. I openly (on the thread) apologized to the lady for any offense; that should be proof enough that I have no desire to be condescending, patronizing, or any other negatively mannered way toward anyone. I now apologize to any and all that I may have offended, and I give a double apology to the lady that the response in question was directed to. Please do not believe that I am doing this because you carry the title moderator. I am doing it because it is the right thing to do and only because of that. I do not bow to anyone, but I do attempt to respect everyone, within reason. The two should not be confused.
The problem with writing is that
true tone is not fully realized, and it is very easy to be misunderstood. For you and others, this (hobby)
may be a substantial part of your life. I do not know and will not assume. It is a very finite and dispensable part of mine which I indulge in for occasional pleasure on the side of something (relationship) better. My point being, reluctance to post or cessation of the same because I was misunderstood will be a small thing. I shall carefully consider posting anything from this point on for the sake of avoiding opinion clashes and petty issues that will not matter at the end of the day.
Again, to anyone I offended in any thread, post, or whatever the case may be, I apologize emphatically.
Ciao