COF? Do you guys Like it?

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I love your picture. That is hilarious.

With a woman who truly enjoys wants, COF can be a nice experience. But like popping fireworks for two hours on the 4th of July....it loses its appeal as soon as it's over as inevitably there is some messy sticky cleanup that has to take place. (Plus you feel bad if it gets in their hair!) I'm sure the COF finish in porno would lose a lot of it's appeal if they showed the following couple of minutes after the scene.

Bottom line for me, the sexiest thing about a finish (whether it be CIM, COB or even just the let it fly from an HJ) is the perception that the woman is excited for you to do it there. When a woman enjoys (or at least gives the illusion) of enjoying you finish, it makes all the difference in the world. Especially in the hobby, as for a lot of guys finishing with a condom on may be difficult. A hot session can cool off pretty quickly if your partner treats finishing you off with all the clinical excitement of milking a cow at 6:00am.

COF isn't for me. I know some ladies offer it, but I've declined when offered. I just don't get off on it.

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I love your picture. That is hilarious. Originally Posted by ksistoobusy

Thanks!

I like it, but she has to like it too to make it work. it's a mutual, complete visual stimulant. there is no stimulation if she doesn't want it.

the great thing about eccie/aspd/etc. is that with a little due diligence, you can find the right provider that offers whatever stimulates you (whether it is COF, CIM, finishing missionary, or hanging from the ceiling fan while being tickled with a feather, you know, whatever gets YOU off).

no one has to "get it" when it comes to what stimulates other people. there is no right or wrong answer.

no one has to "get it" when it comes to what stimulates other people. there is no right or wrong answer. Originally Posted by rex4998

Agreed. My reply (and I assume others) was in answer to the OP question.

I LOVE COF! But ONLY if he allows SHIT on HIS face. Equal trade, IMO.

I LOVE COF! But ONLY if he allows SHIT on HIS face. Equal trade, IMO.
Originally Posted by Sweet Heather

HAHA that's funny and I agree COF is as degrading as "shitting on face"

I definately enjoy COF and for me it is visual stimulation. However, it's only enjoyable when your partner is into it also. There is nothing hotter to me than when a girl asks you to come on her face and MEANS IT. Originally Posted by horn814

Ditto to the first sentence.

As for the third, I find it impossible to believe that a woman would actually want someone to COHF -- even if she genuinely does, I don't think I'd buy what she's saying. Now, if she encourages me to COHF because she KNOWS I WANT to, now, that's hot.

One time I was allowed to COHF, I offered to get a wet towel for her, and she declined. She said she'd prefer to just sit there like that and chat for a while. I found that truly erotic.

I prefer COHF in porn -- there's so much porn out there that I can afford to delete scenes that don't have it -- but there are way too many scenes where the girl looks like a hungry birdie waiting for the guy to hand-deliver the food, and not nearly enough scenes where she herself completes the task.

In real life, I generally side with those who prefer CIM, but I count among the best climaxes I've ever had a couple of COHFs that resulted from titty-fucking,

I must confess, this is my favorite way to finish, COF. But, I do not enjoy it if the lady finds it degrading. I do not enjoy doing any activities the lady finds degrading.

But for me, COF is veryerotic. It's about doing something "taboo." I suspect that may have something to do with it for the ladies who like it as well. It is also one of the ultimate expressions of being nasty or dirty, which some ladies truly enjoy being. Having their man COF gives them the feeling of being very bad, dirty, and nasty and that gets them off.

The bottomline for me when I do it, it is about doing something society says is taboo, ti is about being nasty and about making the lady feel like she is nasty, dirty, and naughty. It is never about domination for me or degrading the lady.

I LOVE COF! But ONLY if he allows SHIT on HIS face. Equal trade, IMO.
Originally Posted by Sweet Heather

Is there a difference between a woman squirting on a mans face and him squirting on her face? Would a woman get turned on by squirting on a guy who's dining at her Y?

I'm sorry, but shit and piss are a lot different than male or female ejaculate.

I LOVE COF! But ONLY if he allows SHIT on HIS face. Equal trade, IMO.
Originally Posted by Sweet Heather

Oh, see...that's for an entirely different thread. And Board...I would imagine. Or, shit...I don't know.

Did I just say Shit?

Shit.




~Kelly TNT

What is it about COF?

My post about "Which one does it for you?" made me think about this.

It's the Finale in just about Every Porn movie I've seen....

Lots of ladies offer it as a part of their services.

I've seen it posted in reviews many times...


So, what is it about COF that does it for you?
I don't get it.
Is it a turn on? Do the ladies love it too? Is it a turn off?
Is there even a point to it?
Or...is it just a Good visual for porn? Like, See....I did it! I really did. I'm not faking this ladies! Look what I did!


I'm really curious...because, yeah...I don't get it.

~Kelly TNT Originally Posted by Kelly TNT

I don't know why. I can't explain it, I'm sure some shrink somewhere will have some opinions, but to me COF is Frieken HOT! Not the first thing I look for, but if I'm surfing ads looking for the appointment, COF is a definite trip to the head of the "line"d

I haven't personally done it. I'm just happy to have someone else in the room when I come

Well. since for COF, I basically have to jack myself off, I'll pass. Just way down there on my list of ways I like to cum when I'm with a beautiful naked lady.

And why would I want to do that to a face as gorgeous as Kelly's???