From all my years, I think it is possible for things to be mutually pleasing.
I cannot actually enjoy myself, if I am not taking care of the Lady also. Maybe I am weird, but it was just how I was taught.
Most guys aren't completely selfish, but of course there are some. To me, it is part of the girl-friend experience.
your thoughts would be greatly appreciated!
), but by taking a shower at the incall (even if I just took one) and taking care of business when first walking in seems to be a form of fore play that lets both people know we can relax and have a good time.