I don't recall that BJ's were so much the focus prior to the Monica & Bill Clinton incident. I'm sure some guys may respond like the blogger in the link below does but is this a small minority?
Gentlemen, do you feel that a session is sub-par if you don't get a BJ? Ladies, do you find many guys that don't want a BJ?
http://sothenshe.com/post/426249679/...-hate-blowjobs