Providers - What Size Do You Like??

I've often wondered how many men are comfortable in their own skin, to the point they don't shy away from a woman while their cock is in it's flaccid state?
I bring this up as I realize some men feel or are of the belief that women are turned on by an erect cock or even a large one.

When in reality. And this is just my own POV.
A mans dick is more beautiful in it's natural state. Than when it's hard & erect.
Don't get me wrong. A swollen wonderful dick is a useful tool when pleasing a woman. but what does it retreat to afterwords? It's natural flaccid state.
Thus the enjoyment of pleasing and thoroughly enjoying a dick that's soft, is wonderful! She gets to take her time, watch it grow.
And while spooning....cupping it in her warm hands as her other hand caresses your skin.
Some men are embarrassed when their cock is not hard. And thus retreat to putting the undies back on. Don't be. It's beautiful just the way it is!

Ask me in private and I *MIGHT* tell you the truth....

Ok being this thread first was about the size you can handle, but seemed to derail to how you use it to being the key to the size you can handle.

Now I've found there is no one set way for pleasing all ladies, as they each like it a different way, but the main key that appears to found is LOTS OF FOREPLAY for preparation (but time becomes a issue here in the hobbying world, so that's where my my other surprise comes to play), and getting her to naturally lube up is always best. Then at that point give her control in CG so you get to see what she likes And how much she is comfortable with, so when the client is in control (if he paid attention) he would know what your limits are and not go past that.

Also you will find (and I am going to say) most guys refuse to read instructions before assembling something and end up redoing it with the instructions, so instructing them may be a tough thing to do.

Now you have to also consider if the guys that has a long term SO, they are going to programed with her likes

Each of my ATFs likes it a different way, now I'm not going to elaborate on my size, but they are all very small petite women and it amazes me to watch Jr completely disappear while they are in CG so at that point size is no longer a issue, and now you have to pay attention to what movement she likes and what areas on her body she works to stimulate herself. Knowing all that tells me exactly what to do to make her head spin off. And they do the same to me, one in particular very recently actually found a Sweet Spot on me that even I was unaware of (nothing to do with the thread just giving props).

This thread is still about the penis. Good fun loving dick feedback that some men appreciate.

Ok being this thread first was about the size you can handle, but seemed to derail to how you use it to being the key to the size you can handle. Originally Posted by Rcoop361

I'm horny lol

I'm bored.

I'm bored. Originally Posted by London Rayne

LOL me too.

I'm horny lol Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

Sweet, isn't that how we started off the day?? Nobody took care of you today.....damn....I need a road trip!!

Yea but I offered you dinner and a bj...same with a few other mods lol. Hey I tried! Originally Posted by London Rayne

Perhaps, I should have taken you up on the offer. Maybe next time I am down in Nola, we can do dinner, and who knows after a few margaritas.....you may be open to a few suggestions...........I'm just saying...........LOL

Wicked Milf you have had some great input! When is your next trip to our fair city!!?

"I've often wondered how many men are comfortable in their own skin, to the point they don't shy away from a woman while their cock is in it's flaccid state?
I bring this up as I realize some men feel or are of the belief that women are turned on by an erect cock or even a large one."


That's the greyer area.. I'm comfortable with my 5-6" in the bedroom because I am confident in my ability to use it (and other skills) to the fullest.. but being a 'grower not a shower' as they say can be a little embarassing. 'Shrinkage' can really take its toll and he tends to 'turtle' leaving sometimes less than even the full head exposed on the rare occasion Im in the presence of a lady and not aroused. Being a burly guy to boot, it's hard not to feel a little uncomfortable.
(Actually I do nude or as we say 'skyclad' rituals on occasion with groups of fellow witchy folk, as well as hot tubbing, not-so skinny dipping, etc.. and even in that spiritual environment where its all about mutual acceptance and natural being, I'm comfortable because of that but wish he'd hang out just a week bit more.. though a boner is considered bad etiquette in such circles so I have to maintain self discipline over 'vanity' and keep him in his place)

Perhaps, I should have taken you up on the offer. Maybe next time I am down in Nola, we can do dinner, and who knows after a few margaritas.....you may be open to a few suggestions...........I'm just saying...........LOL Originally Posted by SOULMANIKE

Ok who told you after only 2 margaritas I am good for just about anything? I am gonna kick some butt lol!

I've often wondered how many men are comfortable in their own skin, to the point they don't shy away from a woman while their cock is in it's flaccid state? Originally Posted by Wicked Milf

I am. I have always been more or less ok with being spot-on average, but the first couple of times I saw providers, the absurdity of worrying about size finally sunk in. When I walked into those first couple of incalls, I realized that even if I were John Holmes, she's probably seen it before (and in fact, has seen guys who are a lot of things that I'm not). With a girlfriend one can always delude one's self into believing anything, so those first couple of provider experiences made me realize just how ridiculous it was to worry about any of that with anyone. The experience was rather freeing. I actually laughed at myself for ever having worried about it. My attitude is basically, if size is the problem, it's not my problem.

I give the whore money to please her. Now pleasew my cock!

Yea but I offered you dinner and a bj...same with a few other mods lol. Hey I tried! Originally Posted by London Rayne

Well I never received that offer....humpf!! Guess I'm not an the A-list, of course I'm usually not.