Time Wasters - Any of the ladies willing to tackle the subject openly?

"I have allowed more girls than you know to use my incals for FREE. There are also plenty of guys here who can help if you need to rent a room to work out of, like when they pay before a session so you can get a room. I can afford to get a hotel room on my own Darlin, I have a bit more pride than to have to ask a hobbyist for $60 for a room. And ladies that put themselves in those situations are asking for trouble IMHO.
I have been there, done that. I know you have, I also know you like to wait until the end of the month and post on backpage doNO screening, and back to back appointments because rent is due n you blew your money on... other activities.
Personally, from what LAZ has told me about the way you provide...
I will pass on your advice."

Look lady, I don't know what you think you know about me, but you've got it all WRONG. I mean, I could see how you would wish to be right. I used to be a lot like YOU. It turns out, yeah, we could have been best friends like you mentioned earlier considering the things YOU STILL like to dabble in. So yeah, guess what? Laz is not the only only who likes to talk and I've heard quite some entertaining stories about you. But, unlike you I didn't start pointing all that shit out. But now, well, I don't feel bad for you. I don't give a fuck! I didn't have to wait till I was fuckin 50 something to figure out that I was all fucked up! Oh and for the record, I don't like $60 rooms. Cucarachas!

As for me having to wait to get on BP last min and all those accusations you threw out...Ummm I don't even pay my own bills. I am here because I just fuckin feel like it. Yeah, Im sneaky and I wanna have some money and some fun on the side for myself, so what? But if I really needed it, then Id be available more than what I will be when I decide to get over there. I was bored without the board, to be honest! No drama at home so I get my fill here.

As for the things I mentioned earlier about help with an incall or room, the reason I posted was because this board has a way of making some girls feel helpless or entitled. This whole drama made me think about that. I know, I was one of them. But you know what? You reap what you sow! Sometimes I look back and wonder why the fuck I did some of the things that I did. I thought I couldn't get my rent, but then I wouldn't try to look for a fuckin job. There's the problem. Any girl here could get herself out of whatever hole she has dug herself into if she TRIES. Why does this board brainwash people into thinking they can't? Now, again, this is not everyone, but some. I just want to point out to the newer providers that they should not get stuck/dependent on this life. You can do much more! Have your cake and eat it too! Many of us have real world jobs and do this on the side. Why not do something good for yourself?

... I also allowed her the use of my washer, dryer and refrigerator at no charge ... Originally Posted by Laz

The more information you reveal the more despicable you sound. Please stop.

... I contacted whispers last week when I received an eviction notice. I was angry n asked him to be a lil extra mean to Laz because Laz was a time waster n he had screwed me over. Originally Posted by Ms Francisca

Interesting. So this threAD is like a carney game: Whispers the Carnival Barker; you, dear lady, the Shill planted in the crowd; Laz, the Sucker. Or are we all the Sucker: after all, The Fix was on from the get go.

Or can it be argued that Whispers is just a high adrenalin White Night. Or maybe just one of those WUSSES he is always talking about?

Fuck that is 10 Minutes of my life I will never get back.

You a speed reader?

Kinda.

I can ignore most of what the PostHos write, since its the same dribble you hear from them all the time.

Then the thread deteriated into a LazBash.....yawn.

and I don't have to read teh massive Quotes.....read them once

But you have a postho who rivals Wakeup in Houston for asswhile of the month

It is impossible to defend yourself against a liar. No matter what I say the whore will just make up more lies. (Yes Whispers in this case I agree with you on the use of the word)

We all have a point when the word comes to mind. I don't agree with you here but can understand your frustration.

I just have this for people to consider. There was no lease forcing her to stay. No deposit to lose. If she was unhappy why did she not just leave?

Perhaps she believed promises being made?

Why did I have to file a lawsuit to get her out?

I'm not sure. I think you could have done a few things differently for the same effect.

Every day she stays without paying rent is theft.

No. It's a civil dispute. In her mind she has presented an explanation as to ho she feels she has paid. Whether it is accurate or not is for the courts to decide but had it been theft she would be arrested no?

She is good about complaining about details she does not like but never bothers to state that I did not charge her a deposit. I did not charge a pet deposit. She did offer to pay a pet deposit but at some point in the future when she had the money but I passed as compensation for the couple of weeks when the inside was not in good enough condition.

Ok.... So there is an admission from you regarding you felt the need to compensate her for condition on the inside..... Laz.... You really should have got your own attorney here... First thing I think he would tell you is to shut up...

I also allowed her the use of my washer, dryer and refrigerator at no charge.

I could make a good case for those to be included in that Verbal Lease and get a judge to require you to put them back in there.

I also did not charge pet rent. Those of you that pay those things know the value I was giving her.

Not in regards to what this place looks like as reported.

She talks about the days when I was busy and did not work on the house but does not bother to mention the days she told me to stay away.

Stay away for what reason though? You have left out the whole part of you using this to leverage a relationship with her.

Bottom line is that the people that know me know she is full of shit. Those that don't can make up their own mind any way they want. I really don't care.

LMAO! Welcome to MY world Laz! I can say the same thing. really has no affects on the ones that don't want to believe us!

If the guys don't like me, who cares. As for the ladies, there are already more than enough that know me that I can't afford to see. If someone chooses not to see me because of this it is not going to bother me. Originally Posted by Laz

hope not...

it's just a SHMB

Interesting. So this threAD is like a carney game: Whispers the Carnival Barker; you, dear lady, the Shill planted in the crowd; Laz, the Sucker. Or are we all the Sucker: after all, The Fix was on from the get go.

Or can it be argued that Whispers is just a high adrenalin White Night. Or maybe just one of those WUSSES he is always talking about? Originally Posted by JohnnyYanks

The Wusses don't get involved in the hard things and are not around when real help is needed from what I hear....

Ha! Good thread... This is why I don't offer 30 minute dates at all anymore and also the reason why I hardly entertain 60 minute appointments. Originally Posted by XOXO Karla

You never shared with us how they waste your time.

So u wanna know about people who just wanna hang out for free, or ohhh say just show up at ur hotel for an unplanned meet and greet? Originally Posted by NikkiWhite

Yes.... That one sounds rather disturbing.... Ever have it interfere with one of your client's time?

BACK ON TOPIC Originally Posted by *LusciousLeo*

Please

"dickeybigg11" is a HUGE time waster! I have seen this man once and he has text'd about 1000 times. We have set up future dates and then he cancels the same morning. After the first time he did this I wasn't going to give him another chance, but then I did and he played the exact same game, saying how I'm his favorite and that he really does like me and wants to see me more often....blah blah blah Originally Posted by *LusciousLeo*

I'm limiting my time with the hobby so when I do make time to see someone I expect they follow through, as I will when he arrives. He was a great person when we met the first time but the constant contact was too much for me and canceling like that twice puts him on the DNS list.




Take care, I hope everyone stays positive!




Luscious Leo
Originally Posted by *LusciousLeo*

Here was another informative post

@ LusciousLeo girl I know what you mean he was blowing up my phone with texts and pm's. Talking about how big his dick is and if I can handle it 10x7 he puts it. He wanted a session but I was not feeling comfortable with all the dam messages and his ego, so I finally ignored him and so far he has stopped bothering me. Originally Posted by mirandalee

Some support....

The time wasters that make my skin crawl are the "supposed" guys that are interested - sending pm's with time suggestions, and never adhere to them, for a matter of months. Basically, the entire group that needs to read this: "Serious Inquiries Only" . Admiration and interest is fine, hell, it's GREAT, but false impressions and appointments are not, so much. Originally Posted by Eva Damita

Totally understandable....

I don't know which providers you are referring to but actually we have 2 private sections that I'm aware of. The powder room and the info share. Once verified provider status is in we automatically have access to the info share section. The powder room has certain requirements.

I don't know where you get this idea that some providers don't care to "read about this or that problems", in fact, the info share has a lot of useful info that most of us appreciate! Sure we can use the alert or coed but sometimes we/they won't for reasons like being judged or safety purposes. There's also some of us that won't post alerts in info share cause sometimes it's not as private as we hope but that doesn't mean info isn't shared privately amongst each other or in other forums. Originally Posted by Novatx

I have always felt that the ladies do a much finer job of keeping their secrets. Men can sell out too easily.

Yes we do talk
there are a few guys that attend EVERY social...and are known to not "pay for play"
One even has a rep of waiting on a lady to get tipsy/drunk, and what do ya know...he just so happens to be "a safe ride home".
.no woman who has been IN that situation(whose thoughts are usually distorted by alcohol and/or other substances) has stated "foul play" or mentioned being taken advantage of.
However those on the outside looking in, can clearly tell thats exactly whats happening.
I guess hes great at forming "friendships"

Cant tell you his handle...i steer clear of him. Originally Posted by MsPrittiKitti

Very disturbing..... A shame no one feels strong enough to bring it out...

Predator maybe. Rapist idk.
How he gets invited, i have no clue.
But he totally fits the description you provided earlier.
Idk his handle...but im sure he'll be at the next one. Originally Posted by MsPrittiKitti

Was He?

Whoa!
How'd I miss this thread! I ought not go on vacation for so long next time. lol.

I agree with some of the ladies who mentioned "dickeybiggs11" as a timewaster.

He has contacted me numerous times via PM but mostly via text.
I had been receiving texts and such from him for a few months but whenever he contacted me I was either in an appointment or not working (when Im not working my provider cell is Off) etc and usually when I was able to contact him back it was over an hour and I do not call or text anyone back if it has been more than an hour since initial contact. Other times, our schedules didnt match up.
My business days/hours are clearly posted in over four places- showcase, website, p411, ads, profile, other sites etc so when people call me when it is obvious I am not available it irks me a bit but whatever. Anyway, this particular night it was late and I was clearing out my provider phone as I was too busy to do so earlier in the day when I get two texts from Mr. Biggs.
(Everything will be right on mark BUT paraphrased)
He says- I want to see you babe. When can I see you? I want a BNG for $40. Can I come over now? Are you available?
Of course I had to ask who he was as he didnt identify himself (which is also annoying. Im an intellectual, not a psychic! And I dont keep client numbers in my cell for obvious reasons as it violates the code of discretion we all like to maintain. )
I decided to text this guy back because he has always seemed kind and has had a difficult time scheduling as ours havent matched. (Contrary to what many think, I really AM a nice lady. ). So I let him know I am not available at that moment but will be the next day and give him my hours. I ask what time works for him. He says- You will like me. I just hope you can handle me. I am very big. Can you handle it?
I never talk this way to anyone on the phone and I ask a few more times when is good for him. Finally, he books a 12:30pm half hour instead of the BNG he initially asked for. Then he says- want to see it? I say no because it is more fun and exciting not to know and let the anticipation build, isnt it? He replies, No. I want you to see it. Im sending it. So he does and then ask me what I think. I simply reply "nice". He tried to get more out of me and wanted to pull me into a phone sex session with him at that point and would not let up. I ignore it all and just tell him I have to go to sleep now so I can be refreshed to meet him tomorrow. He says ok and I say goodnight and shut off the ringer and slept.

In the morning, checked phone and he had text me 12 more times with shit like- so what do you like to do? Can you take it deep? You really like my big one? Hello? Are you there? Hey babe! ....... Smh.....you get the point, folks?

Ok so now it is tomorrow. At noon I expected to hear from him for directions to my incall. Nothing. At 12:30pm his booked visit time he still hadnt called. So all that shit for nothing. i refuse to call or text him because I didnt know if something came up and he was with his SO or family or whatever. I sent a PM instead and that was that.

THEN, I finally get a text from him at 4:30pm and he says- Can I come see you today babe? Whats your next available?

Im like WTF???? He is all cool and calm like nothing happened. Like a split personality or something!!!! Weirdo!
I replied with No, you NCNS'd me and now you FINALLY call me and have the gall to act like nothing happened. You dont apologize for standing me up, wasting my time and money. He says- I didnt stand you up. How did I lose your money? (Yes, poor grammar skills!) I tell him I dont have time to play games and that if he cannot even admit and apologize for wasting my time and wants to act like we didnt have a 12:30 appt then he can just move on. He says- babe, Im a nice guy. I promise. Your gona love me. I cant help it. Sometimes things happen. I have a job you know and i cant just leave whenever I want to. I got held up at work Im sorry. Can I cum see you? At this point, I no longer answered him anymore. I was done. He kept on texting for about 15 minutes, a total of 19 texts. Things like- I dont know why you wont see me Im really a nice guy. I swear. Can I see you now? Ill come over right now. Where are you? Hello? Are you there babe? Hey are you available now?

.......blah!!!!! So yeah, yes, yup----TIME-WASTER.

He may be a nice guy, but I dont care to find out anymore. Not worth all that shit. I gave him more patience than he deserved and more than I have to anyone in a long time. I dont have to deal with this shit - there are way too many gentlemen out there who know the proper way of scheduling an appointment and will not waste a ladys time. I enjoy being sociable and getting to know people but this was just ridiculous. This guy needs a self esteem course because 1. His dick is not that big. 2. It wasnt anything unique or impressive- it was just a normal dick. 3. Seriously overdoes it with the extreme need for approval and attention to this area to the point of being annoying.

Just Sayin'.


Typing on my iphone so forgive any typos etc. long post I know but wanted you all to see and FEEL the annoyance I experience for the full affect! LOL ok Im done. ..... Next..!

KKA
XOXO

Yup I've heard a lot about dickeybigg11 from more than one or two girls. How he likes to sext all day and send pix of his member.

Lmmfbo!

So, no, "junk pix". Check.

Did ya' hear that SL?
Knock that shit off!

Tff!...

Fucking 'junk pix'.
.

.

Nope! The guy i was referring to, did not show up!!!
That was a FIRST!!! Seriously.

Lmmfbo!

So, no, "junk pix". Check.

Did ya' hear that SL?
Knock that shit off!

Tff!...

Fucking 'junk pix'.
.

.

Originally Posted by SofaKingFun

CHECK

Whoa!
How'd I miss this thread! I ought not go on vacation for so long next time. lol.

I agree with some of the ladies who mentioned "dickeybiggs11" as a timewaster.

He has contacted me numerous times via PM but mostly via text.
I had been receiving texts and such from him for a few months but whenever he contacted me I was either in an appointment or not working (when Im not working my provider cell is Off) etc and usually when I was able to contact him back it was over an hour and I do not call or text anyone back if it has been more than an hour since initial contact. Other times, our schedules didnt match up.
My business days/hours are clearly posted in over four places- showcase, website, p411, ads, profile, other sites etc so when people call me when it is obvious I am not available it irks me a bit but whatever. Anyway, this particular night it was late and I was clearing out my provider phone as I was too busy to do so earlier in the day when I get two texts from Mr. Biggs.
(Everything will be right on mark BUT paraphrased)
He says- I want to see you babe. When can I see you? I want a BNG for $40. Can I come over now? Are you available?
Of course I had to ask who he was as he didnt identify himself (which is also annoying. Im an intellectual, not a psychic! And I dont keep client numbers in my cell for obvious reasons as it violates the code of discretion we all like to maintain. )
I decided to text this guy back because he has always seemed kind and has had a difficult time scheduling as ours havent matched. (Contrary to what many think, I really AM a nice lady. ). So I let him know I am not available at that moment but will be the next day and give him my hours. I ask what time works for him. He says- You will like me. I just hope you can handle me. I am very big. Can you handle it?
I never talk this way to anyone on the phone and I ask a few more times when is good for him. Finally, he books a 12:30pm half hour instead of the BNG he initially asked for. Then he says- want to see it? I say no because it is more fun and exciting not to know and let the anticipation build, isnt it? He replies, No. I want you to see it. Im sending it. So he does and then ask me what I think. I simply reply "nice". He tried to get more out of me and wanted to pull me into a phone sex session with him at that point and would not let up. I ignore it all and just tell him I have to go to sleep now so I can be refreshed to meet him tomorrow. He says ok and I say goodnight and shut off the ringer and slept.

In the morning, checked phone and he had text me 12 more times with shit like- so what do you like to do? Can you take it deep? You really like my big one? Hello? Are you there? Hey babe! ....... Smh.....you get the point, folks?

Ok so now it is tomorrow. At noon I expected to hear from him for directions to my incall. Nothing. At 12:30pm his booked visit time he still hadnt called. So all that shit for nothing. i refuse to call or text him because I didnt know if something came up and he was with his SO or family or whatever. I sent a PM instead and that was that.

THEN, I finally get a text from him at 4:30pm and he says- Can I come see you today babe? Whats your next available?

Im like WTF???? He is all cool and calm like nothing happened. Like a split personality or something!!!! Weirdo!
I replied with No, you NCNS'd me and now you FINALLY call me and have the gall to act like nothing happened. You dont apologize for standing me up, wasting my time and money. He says- I didnt stand you up. How did I lose your money? (Yes, poor grammar skills!) I tell him I dont have time to play games and that if he cannot even admit and apologize for wasting my time and wants to act like we didnt have a 12:30 appt then he can just move on. He says- babe, Im a nice guy. I promise. Your gona love me. I cant help it. Sometimes things happen. I have a job you know and i cant just leave whenever I want to. I got held up at work Im sorry. Can I cum see you? At this point, I no longer answered him anymore. I was done. He kept on texting for about 15 minutes, a total of 19 texts. Things like- I dont know why you wont see me Im really a nice guy. I swear. Can I see you now? Ill come over right now. Where are you? Hello? Are you there babe? Hey are you available now?

.......blah!!!!! So yeah, yes, yup----TIME-WASTER.

He may be a nice guy, but I dont care to find out anymore. Not worth all that shit. I gave him more patience than he deserved and more than I have to anyone in a long time. I dont have to deal with this shit - there are way too many gentlemen out there who know the proper way of scheduling an appointment and will not waste a ladys time. I enjoy being sociable and getting to know people but this was just ridiculous. This guy needs a self esteem course because 1. His dick is not that big. 2. It wasnt anything unique or impressive- it was just a normal dick. 3. Seriously overdoes it with the extreme need for approval and attention to this area to the point of being annoying.

Just Sayin'.


Typing on my iphone so forgive any typos etc. long post I know but wanted you all to see and FEEL the annoyance I experience for the full affect! LOL ok Im done. ..... Next..!

KKA
XOXO Originally Posted by KlassyKelliAnn

Typing on my iphone so forgive any typos etc. long post I know but wanted you all to see and FEEL the annoyance I experience for the full affect! LOL ok Im done. ..... Next..! Originally Posted by KlassyKelliAnn

Damn woman.... That man sure annoyed the shit out of you to endure your iPhone touchscreen to do all that!


Thanks!

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