They give themselves away!

Sometimes protect overrides provide. Hence the common notice of women with abusive or rude or even completely dead beat men. They trigger the subconscious by being perceived as aggressive and strong. As such the primal need to be protected senses this aggression and attaches to it.

The human mind is both complicated and simple in its workings. Sometimes it seems as if the woman is being redundantly stupid but is generally being overridden by the subconscious.

The other possibility is an abused background. If the woman (or man) was abused heavily as a child they could associate the violence or aggression with love itself. So the dead beat non working man who is violently inclined gets the girl. Or the sweet heart of a man ends up with a nagging evil wife. Originally Posted by JayceeRivers

exactly
women cannot separate work with the stress of what's going on in their lives.

not something you want in a someone who you go to see to take care of your needs
if my maid was sitting down every 2 minutes because she was stressed about her life, I'd tell her to go home

I doubt you'd want to continue to see your therapist if they kept breaking down in tears

Providing is a job, if a provider is out to make life long friends, or friends to get help from when she is in a pinch, she is in the wrong line of work

or are providers and clients hanging out and the BFFs I've never heard about.

thanks for the laugh,
I love the prolix nature of your posts.

You have been quite vocal about your opinions of my posts. Despite them being "unoriginal" and tedious in your eyes you do seem to almost stalk my opinion. I can't quite tell if it is in an effort to rile me up or you simply have far too much time on your hands.

Well, it was good point counter-point comment until it got down to the part about laugh and prolix, especially since I had to look up that last word. I thought Prolix was made by Pfizer and used by Pfucked up pfeople to chill pfout. The therapist started crying, prescribed Prolix to the maid for sitting down on the job with stress and its side effects were such that she then only enjoyed sex if she was paid. That's what he meant. See, back on track already.

Well, it was good point counter-point comment until it got down to the part about laugh and prolix, especially since I had to look up that last word. I thought Prolix was made by Pfizer and used by Pfucked up pfeople to chill pfout. The therapist started crying, prescribed Prolix to the maid for sitting down on the job with stress and its side effects were such that she then only enjoyed sex if she was paid. That's what he meant. See, back on track already. Originally Posted by bartipero

that was funny
nice work

You have been quite vocal about your opinions of my posts. Despite them being "unoriginal" and tedious in your eyes you do seem to almost stalk my opinion. I can't quite tell if it is in an effort to rile me up or you simply have far too much time on your hands. Originally Posted by JayceeRivers

stalk your opinion? nah,I just go to the new posts.
If you said anything interesting, or factual, I might comment, and that might lead to an actual, conversation, but NO ONE has a conversation with you, you just throw down words and people tend to ask WTF are you talking about and nothing comes of it
So I just point out what you do cause I think it's funny.....


no, I don't need to give you my number, I have no interested in meeting you.

Family, work, relationships, children, finances, friends, personal needs all place an emotional burden on "us". When that burden is removed it tends to make a person feel relieved or happy if you will. Originally Posted by Still Looking

That is why we take vacations.

I just catch a plane an fly somewhere then the pressure is too great and my thoughts all run together. Or, one can get on ECCIE and harass Dirty Dog, or is it Dirty Dawg? I don't know anymore.

JR