My story with Cherry Red

Yes, G is Grizzly. But can anyone help me understand why is an exchange his girl doing this to me? Originally Posted by Etakappanu

People can only do to you what you let them do to you love. This is a business in which an
Exchange takes place, and we go home. It sounds like you need a girlfriend as opossum to an escort. You sound like you're too nice for your own good. Sorry you got hurt love.

Sorry ET, I would not see her in the first place. I would like to remind you she took your money and did not provide the services you either requested or wanted. She is not trustworthy. If she would do this to you(her cash cow) what will she do to others? She has done this before and you let her get away with it again and again. Got it!!!

Your approval of her still is either stupidity on your part or just plain bs

Don't you dare for one fucking second dump this shit on anyone else but you, dipshit!

It's one thing to act like someone who respects women. It's another to think you're saving women from a lifestyle they've chosen.

The women who provide aren't [I]solely[I] sex objects. I'm sure they all have lives outside of here where they do all sorts of great things like go to school, have kids, appreciate the arts, whatever whatever. But when they're here, they're transacting business because they want to. In fact, many appreciate it when their customers don't try to get to know in any other way besides a sex object.

Get over yourself. Originally Posted by CaptainKaos

I could not have put that any better myself Kaos.

The hobby is for SEX (and friendship if you both wish to be) - not to find a long term relationship.

I'll admit that I once fell for a provider due to the strong connection we had. I persued a relationship with her due to disharmony in my home life and it was a mistake.
Take it from me - it's much better to maintain a friendship with the women in this hobby and keep it at the hobby level to maintain the good friendship than it is to ruin a good thing by trying to peruse anything more. Maintaining a friendship and taking the hobby for what it is instead of trying to make something more of it is ALWAYS the right path. That was a valuable lesson I learned.

Kaos said it best -most, if not all providers are here for NSA sex, adventure, money and friendship - not a long term relationship.
If you want to find a long term girlfriend, quit trying to wife up providers - match.com and eharmony.com are the places for you.

So sad, some people are just not meant for this hobby. Originally Posted by dirty dog

I don't know what you're talking about old friend. I was happy to read about the tattoo. I was hoping I wasn't the only one. I have tattooed the names of all the women I've seen on my back, as well as the date I saw them, activities that took place, and a brief synopsis of the encounter. You never know when you may need that info again. The wife doesn't really like it much, especially when new ones are added.

Thank u everyone. I guess I'm just too young to look at women as solely sex object. Originally Posted by Etakappanu

But she IS a sex object. It's her JOB to be a sex object.

I know I came into this thread all late and shit but this really bothered me for some reason.

I don't know what you're talking about old friend. I was happy to read about the tattoo. I was hoping I wasn't the only one. I have tattooed the names of all the women I've seen on my back, as well as the date I saw them, activities that took place, and a brief synopsis of the encounter. You never know when you may need that info again. The wife doesn't really like it much, especially when new ones are added. Originally Posted by kcbigpapa

You must have a large back

You must have a large back Originally Posted by MaryBeth

No, his tattoo artist was originally one of those guys who wrote on grains of rice, but changed careers.

She is a person of big significance to my life. To be honest with you all, I lost my virginity to her and put her nick name Cherry Red on my right arm bicep area as a tattoo. Originally Posted by Etakappanu

WTF??? Did I read this right? You lost your virginity to her and tattooed her nickname on your arm? I think you are in the wrong hobby. You need to get out immediately before you do any more damage to yourself...seriously!

Thank u everyone. I guess I'm just too young to look at women as solely sex object. Originally Posted by Etakappanu

I am not sure what your cultural background is, (since English is not your first language), but for most of the people I know, (including myself) we had to grow into seeing women as equals and not just sex objects. For me this was part of growing up and maturing. As a youngster all women were merely sex objects. So I don't think it is an age thing. You seem a bit confused about this hobby though. Here women are sex objects...that's really the whole point to paying for it.

In no way am I saying I am not respectful to all providers I see, but I am saying there is only one reason I am giving them $$$ and it isn't for their friendship.

No, his tattoo artist was originally one of those guys who wrote on grains of rice, but changed careers. Originally Posted by LNK

Makes a lot of sense haha

I don't believe this story

I don't believe this story Originally Posted by bluegrana

The story is a classic John falls for hooker. Hooker shows why she is called a hooker.
John gets his feelings hurt along with wallet. John wants backing from masses.

I am not sure what your cultural background is, (since English is not your first language), but for most of the people I know, (including myself) we had to grow into seeing women as equals and not just sex objects. For me this was part of growing up and maturing.
As a youngster all women were merely sex objects. So I don't think it is an age thing. You seem a bit confused about this hobby though. Here women are sex objects...that's really the whole point to paying for it. Originally Posted by GiveMeLibertyOrGiveMeHead

That's how I was also, in a nutshell...only replace "women" with "non-whites" and "sex objects" with weirdos...

So were you raised by just your single dad or have a dad that worked and a mom that cleaned?
I'm curious because why did you have to "grow into it"? Which means you had to be taught women were not equal to men at some point....
OK but enough of the PC talk, women are not equal to men, women can do things men can't, (have babies, complain about the dumbest shit, say needy comments) but they lack the brute strength of men and paid time off for pregnancies, give me a break.

I say a similar speech about everyone voting,.

This story just cant be real. Please tell me its not real.

Dude you need a helmet. Stay away from the casinos. Stay away from churches for that matter.

Sounds like a Forrest Gump story.

Sounds like he's married to her. Takes his money, treats him like shit, screws other guys, and doesn't give him what he needs.