Conversation

I'll be accommodating for some convo. I don't mind it at all so long as it's not cutting into playtime. But really it's a turn on for me as soon as I meet someone the "stranger" effect is in full force.

Ladies, how important is a little "get to know you" convo when meeting a guy?
Can you just jump right in as soon as he ( or yourself if it's an outcall) walks through the door?
I find it much more exhilarating to just jump in first with the fuckfest activities, then maybe a little pillow talk in the recharge phase of things. Originally Posted by Out_of_Bounds

I can't remember when I first learned that ....

...women want to "bond" and then fuck, while men want to fuck first.

I can't remember when I first learned that ....

...women want to "bond" and then fuck, while men want to fuck first. Originally Posted by LexusLover

Yeah but who's paying who?

Yeah but who's paying who? Originally Posted by Out_of_Bounds

Used to be a coke and hamburger at the "drive-in" .... on me..... or sometimes popcorn and a coke at the "other drive-in" with the speaker box hanging on the fogged up window.... on me. So when I learned it, I was.

Start from the premise that they are all batshitcrazy........it is down hill from there

So goes the first 5-10 minutes usually so goes the rest of the session.
A small gift and a lil' convo goes a long way to put both at ease especially the pounding heart I have every time from the anticipation. Love it!
I find that the comfort zone of putting a smile on the Lady's face and a lil' convo puts her at ease and usually transpires to her putting a huge smile on mine.

Agreed. I like to know a little about who I am seeing as it makes things a little easier on both parties.

It has been mentioned by several that I like to talk & here's the thing about conversation: There are many gentlemen who are just extremely charismatic and talkative themselves, so once they start chatting it's easy for me to fall into due to the fact that this world is a form of the hospitality business & also, I enjoy getting to know people to some extent more or less to get a feel for their personality, like Amy said. That being said, I have met people, said "hello" & then started heating up the kitchen within the first 10 seconds before. I don't have to say a word, if you let me know that you'd prefer not to, it's just that I prefer getting to know people and think that it makes things much more fun. That's why many will attest to the fact that while I may chat on occasion, I also make up for it by adding additional time to compensate for that. Some of my brunch guests love talking as much as I do, so if someone is jumping into the conversation with me, it makes me think they enjoy it as well. I did have one guy visit several times who did not say one word from the time he walked thru the door until the time he walked back out again, it seemed strange, but I figured he was of the opinion of the less said the better, which may indeed be good idea.



~ Originally Posted by Lexieinhouston

So goes the first 5-10 minutes usually so goes the rest of the session.
A small gift and a lil' convo goes a long way to put both at ease especially the pounding heart I have every time from the anticipation. Love it!
I find that the comfort zone of putting a smile on the Lady's face and a lil' convo puts her at ease and usually transpires to her putting a huge smile on mine. Originally Posted by Speckrecker

I agree, a little convo before helps both parties relax and build up chemistry. I could get into things without some conversation, but I think it would feel a little awkward. Unless the guy is really rushed for time, I always try to make them feel comfortable before we start.

I like a little conversation prior, it just adds to the comfort level. I get nervous sometimes and tend to ramble on, so if I start talking too much, just put something in my mouth to shut me up.

I'm bilingual and fluent in both Cock and English...so we can converse in either language a bit at the beginning to get comfortable...

^^^^^ I don't think we did much talking in the beginning the first time we met, but we did the second time we met

Both times memorable for me.

I prefer to have chatted and started the foreplay prior to our BCD, that way we are already more comfy before meeting. I like to greet with a DFK and my hand on your cock........clothes throw off on the way to the bed...If your already warmed up and ready to go from our chat, then no need to chit chat about the weather..Just bring me your sweet cock and Im a happy girl. Slurp~~

I prefer to have chatted and started the foreplay prior to our BCD, that way we are already more comfy before meeting. I like to greet with a DFK and my hand on your cock........clothes throw off on the way to the bed...If your already warmed up and ready to go from our chat, then no need to chit chat about the weather..Just bring me your sweet cock and Im a happy girl. Slurp~~ Originally Posted by Ms. Athena

That's a good approach.

oops - damn international 4G. Slower than ATT.

I'm fifty-fifty. But usually....when the provider notices my good looks, she's usually speechless.