Good Hobby...Bad Hobby

Join P411,and think about finding another time to meet other than early morning.

Mornings have always garnered the most NCNS's a set date is easily forgotten in the bliss of dreamland. Also backpage ladies are not expressly known for work ethic

IMO: Mornings only work with longstanding repeat friends.
Think about the last three words.

So true. U_C. Look I want to thank everyone for the insight. Especially to a few providers that have stepped up big time. I will catch up on some reviews this week. Also looking forward to meeting a new provider here from Ca on Friday. Also, if anyone is in NKC and would like to grab a beer at one of the locals, i.e.Sidepockets, let me know.

I have been in this hobby since Dec. 2013. I read something on a review where someone said this is a marathon, not a sprint. How true is that. Also, I can't figure out why it is such a sin to be honest. If I get "Stood up" twice by 2 providers, don't get mad at me for stating my opinion. Look, a happy hobbyist is a returning hobbyist. If you are sitting around your room, pick up the phone, send a PM and make things right, it goes a long way in my book. My first 5 months, I was a happy hobbyist, these last 2 months, I am not a happy hobbyist. To much BS, nonsense, etc that I don't want in this hobby. For that reason, I am backing out of this. I am beginning to feel it's not for me, IDK, maybe one of you providers can explain why all these reviews say, "Set up was easy." I find that hard to believe since it hasn't been for me. My appointments just don't happen. My money is as green as others. I have been told by several providers I am one of the best looking men they see as a client. I know I am probably the most respectful guys out here as well. 21 years in the Army has taught me to treat others as I want to be treated, and I truly believe in that. It sucks when I get a PM saying "when did I no show you" "You must have said something or did something for me to not show up", no I made a phone call and had a appointment set. "Can't make it", "Cars is broken down. I am on the side of the highway. I can go on but I won't. I Just needed to vent a little, this has been so disappointing recently. TTYL, And just because my join date is a few days ago, I know more out here than many could ever imagine. Peace to everyone. Originally Posted by MrOral69NPT

OK so you stated this hobby isn't for you and your backing out.....but your still going to see a new provider from Cali Friday...(Kayden) right?

Not that its any of my business...your new and so is she.....who's got references here....You risked alot on Backpage and so far I assume have gotten lucky...

You've also stated several providers tel you how you are the or one of the best looking clients they see.....Well shock the world...They will tell the next guy the same thing!

By stating you are seeing a provider on a certain day...I dunno seems that should be kinda private...(anyone with years in the hobby correct me if I'm wrong)

These references you have ...no reviews? Not adding much to the site...ok ok we don't all have to do reviews....My belief is your approaching this subculture all wrong......maybe wrong but just a hunch...

Maybe I'm the clueless one, but what is the top 25? Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

I'm curious as well?

Folks, you are splitting hairs, it could be the top 30 or 35 providers. My point is, go see someone who has a good reputation, consistent reviews, and is established. See if their menu suits you and call them.
Chances are that it will be a good date verses a date with a flash in the pan or someone from Backpage, or a brand new provider.

Folks, you are splitting hairs, it could be the top 30 or 35 providers. My point is, go see someone who has a good reputation, consistent reviews, and is established. See if their menu suits you and call them.
Chances are that it will be a good date verses a date with a flash in the pan or someone from Backpage, or a brand new provider. Originally Posted by Topgun007

I would have to give you kudos for your steady diet of Backpage for 6 months without
throwing your hands in the air..

I have been in this hobby since Dec. 2013. I read something on a review where someone said this is a marathon, not a sprint. How true is that. Also, I can't figure out why it is such a sin to be honest. If I get "Stood up" twice by 2 providers, don't get mad at me for stating my opinion. Look, a happy hobbyist is a returning hobbyist. If you are sitting around your room, pick up the phone, send a PM and make things right, it goes a long way in my book. My first 5 months, I was a happy hobbyist, these last 2 months, I am not a happy hobbyist. To much BS, nonsense, etc that I don't want in this hobby. For that reason, I am backing out of this. I am beginning to feel it's not for me, IDK, maybe one of you providers can explain why all these reviews say, "Set up was easy." I find that hard to believe since it hasn't been for me. My appointments just don't happen. My money is as green as others. I have been told by several providers I am one of the best looking men they see as a client. I know I am probably the most respectful guys out here as well. 21 years in the Army has taught me to treat others as I want to be treated, and I truly believe in that. It sucks when I get a PM saying "when did I no show you" "You must have said something or did something for me to not show up", no I made a phone call and had a appointment set. "Can't make it", "Cars is broken down. I am on the side of the highway. I can go on but I won't. I Just needed to vent a little, this has been so disappointing recently. TTYL, And just because my join date is a few days ago, I know more out here than many could ever imagine. Peace to everyone. Originally Posted by MrOral69NPT

Join P411. The NCNS are far less frequent with providers there and you will have far fewer problems with screening. You need to find the right girls.

Thanks for the reply Sins of the Flesh. When I started, it was all from BP, I really didn't know how to use ECCIE. I then found ECCIE so helpful to find the women that perform the services I want most, and that will be easy to figure out, look at my AV. All the reviews are pretty positive. I think the problem is I work 10-7pm so I usually want to book an appointment for the next morning, or a day in advance. I too like early mornings, but you have to know that no provider who took a midnight appointment the night before is going to be on her game at 8am. Try this with your ATF or someone you are attracted to, it worked for me. Ask her what her day off is. Ask her to see you the next morning. You also need to keep in mind that the best providers spend a lot of time getting groomed and ready, so 8AM is really 6 for them. I have had success in explaining I love shower play, so I have no problem with you crawling out of bed as I get there and joining me for a wake up shower. One other question, you get off work at 7, why not evening appointments? Every business has hours of operations. You are swimming against the current with early morning in a night time hobby. I do feel that is the main problem, but I feel its their responsibility to make it happen. If you feel that is something you cannot accommodate, don't schedule it. Kansas city is busy at 8am in the morning.
I have communicated on ECCIE through PM. For many months, so some know me, and my questions are limited on the phone since I know everything I need to know, or what I think I need to know, before my call.
Two of the most recent are "Well Reviewed". They both have done screening. And its hard to find a good provider at 8-9AM, that is why I call the day prior. IDK My other ID was guested recently. Originally Posted by MrOral69NPT

One question I always ask myself when going through delays, hassles, driving around waiting for a text, or with NCNS, would I have a better chance of getting laid sitting in a bar hitting on women? In my case, no, so I trade one hassle for another.

Mizzou, thanks for that, Me too would be all about taking a shower with the provider. I never considered there was a day off and that is something I would start asking on the phone. Also, I probably give myself too narrow of a window and for that, I bear responsibility.

Find a handful favorites and treat them wonderfully. They will do the same for you.

The other thing I forgot: Sweetheart, you can pick a few ladies you like, and pre-screen with them if they offer that. Then when you're ready, you can call the night before or as you are leaving work. I have had several guys do that. Some people just have strange unpredictable schedules.

Thanks HH and Holly. I definitely understand having s circle of those that reciprocate our happiness with each other. However my circle recently has been broken and I am trying to reconnect 360. We will see.

From my recent experience, I think it doesn't matter where she advertises or how much she charges when it comes to NCNSs. She is either a professional/classy provider that values your time or she is not.
Both types are on backpage as well as here. Best thing to do is to reward the real professional ones with repeat visits