"bad customers get bad customer service"...?

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Though we do have some lovely parting gifts for him
Bear mace?

I didn't know bears worried about getting attacked. That must some badass stuff.
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  • 07-29-2014, 02:48 PM

Don't ever ever tell a first time client that it is okay to be rough. No, it isn't. You don't know him, you don't know his definition of rough, you don't know if he will listen to your gentle guidance. If he wants someone to be a little rough with, he needs to invest in seeing her a few times to make sure they click and have good communication and comfort levels. Your answer when they ask if they can be rough is always "that's only something I entertain with return clients with whom I am very comfortable." Originally Posted by CarolineDavenport
Well said. That's why you should always do a through screening before seeing someone new.

On a side note Caroline: I hope you can get rough with me one day; just no sprays.
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Even the best providers out there with a couple hundred "yes" reviews have a "no" or two from some guy who is just an asshole, Originally Posted by yardbird74
Even the best providers have off days, resulting in honest "No" recommendations. That doesn't make those honest reviewers 'assholes'.

NB: I am not suggesting that HoneyRyder had an off day, or that she deserved a "No" recommendation for the session she described.
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Get wasp spray or bear mace. Keep it everywhere. It shoots 15-20 feet, has a good spread, and hurts a LOT. Bear mace you can get at sporting goods stores. Wasp spray you can get pretty much anywhere. Both are preferable to pepper spray, in my opinion. If the guy has ever been in the military or police force, he might be prepared to handle pepper spray and still hurt you. No one is ready for bear mace. Originally Posted by CarolineDavenport
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Bear mace?

I didn't know bears worried about getting attacked. That must some badass stuff. Originally Posted by Trident1

It really pisses them off.
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Fuck a bunch of bear mace...

.45acp baby!

9 mm XPS... Is the shizzz
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Bear mace eh? Maybe these guys got a bad batch because I wouldn't trust my life to this stuff

watch from :32 onward...more like FAIL mace

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Another good example of why the ladies should not offer bngs and hhs. Originally Posted by pyramider
Yep.

Once they get to the hour range, now you're making enough money to stop worrying so much about an extra 5-10 minutes. Originally Posted by CarolineDavenport
Exactly. I don't even keep a clock in my room because I don't offer anything less than an hour and everyone I meet is beyond respectful of my time.
He is an idiot. You are hot and have a sweet heart.
Brooke I once had a session with a highly recommended woman that had wall paper depicting many clocks. I got to laughing so hard I couldn't finish the hour.
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Sorry it happened to you. There will be assholes on both sides of business. And it will happen again. I like Caroline's bear mace ideas though hope u do not have to use them. You do not deserve this. Cheer up and go on.
If you're going to do quickies, then yes, be a clock watcher. You have to. Once they get to the hour range, now you're making enough money to stop worrying so much about an extra 5-10 minutes or so, but if he's going to be cheap with his money, be equally cheap with your time. Give him exactly his time, but no more.... if he already knows he needs more time, why did he book a short session?! That's disrespectful to you.

Don't ever ever tell a first time client that it is okay to be rough. No, it isn't. You don't know him, you don't know his definition of rough, you don't know if he will listen to your gentle guidance. If he wants someone to be a little rough with, he needs to invest in seeing her a few times to make sure they click and have good communication and comfort levels. Your answer when they ask if they can be rough is always "that's only something I entertain with return clients with whom I am very comfortable."

Get wasp spray or bear mace. Keep it everywhere. It shoots 15-20 feet, has a good spread, and hurts a LOT. Bear mace you can get at sporting goods stores. Wasp spray you can get pretty much anywhere. Both are preferable to pepper spray, in my opinion. If the guy has ever been in the military or police force, he might be prepared to handle pepper spray and still hurt you. No one is ready for bear mace.

Hope it gets better for you, hun. Originally Posted by CarolineDavenport


Agreed 100%!