Yes, the suggestion that one use the n-word in place of hoogar is grossly exaggerated considering the horror of the history associated with that word.
Words as an assemblage of letters have no weight and no value in and of themselves aside from the meaning and feelings we individually and collectively associate with them. As lighthearted or innocuous as it may seem to me, the term "hoogar" is an affront. Being subject to various ubiquitous banal slights is not an issue for me but can be a cluster bomb to the psyche of others.
There are hoogars here, courtesans, regal types, straight up motherfucking dick pigs, and any other provider one can dream of under the sun. There are hobbyists here make me want to sew up my hymen and turn myself into a nunnery. It seems to me a bit of a fool's errand to attempt to marshal how people are perceived and especially how they are addressed in a community completely based on lewdness and the dissolute. It is a disrespect for the usual and expected decencies that we have in common here.
Originally Posted by Miss Valentina
I hold that words aren't hurtful, intent is. If one can find hurtful intent in Toyz use of the term "hoogar" I feel one may be misplacing some deeper issue.
While I agree that there are ladies here that fulfil a wide range of desires, fantasies, and I am sure in some cases even need; at the end of the day this is a collection of people drawn together to discuss the various aspects of prostitution. Which is simply a sales job, and as any used car salesman will tell you that the stereotypes may be true, people still buy a lot of used cars even while calling them names.
Point being there isn't a lot of room to be vocal when you are personally offended, and still be a good salesperson.
The inference I draw from your statement about wanting to "get thee to a nunnery" is that some make your work enjoyable if not somewhat rewarding. Personally I would love to see more celebration of the positive.
I agree that only a fool would want to enforce much of a moral code with such a diverse and carnal fueled group, but to find disrespect in Toyz use of the word "hoogar" I think you have to look well past his intent.
"straight up motherfucking dick pigs" hahahha, I LOVE IT!!! I'm gonna have to use that for some of the girls at the bar around here (friends of course) =D
Originally Posted by jb0006
For me I get a mental picture of the quintessential truffle pig rooting around for cock, and a look of disappointment and frustration when they dig up a flaccid one.