Dating civilians

Even the "good ones" can turn out to be little more than exceptional actresses until the ring is on the finger and she wants you to help her pay off her enormous CC debt while she does not work and shops all day..

Barnes & Noble..... seriously
Gyms..... yes
Got a dog? Hit up Hermann Park on a nice Sunday..

Memorial Park has been my go to place to meet ladies. I also have a wing woman with me when I go to happy hour for a drinks. women have a way of connecting with each other that helps to break the ice.

Just go out every 4 or 5 years, find a woman you hate,....

....and buy her a nice house.

It would be cheaper.

You are probably right W-U. Anything else going forward is just gravy. Dating is a hassle. Thank god for Eccie! Originally Posted by ktrouble22

If every red-blooded American male knew about Eccie, wedding planners nationwide would have to find a new vocation......

Good luck to the OP per your quest. Personally speaking....that Latina website looks pretty interesting. If I was single (as you are) I'd give that a looksie. Nothing ventured, nothing gained....

Join an activity group. There are plenty of those on meetup.com. That way you might meet someone you like and the bonus is you already have something in common.

i would avoid the dating sites like match or eharmony, or online dating in general unless you are happy with some really old, used up hags. generally, those sites mostly favor females and the quality of the females not so good. as a younger guy, i used it briefly for several months and i can say that the drama i got from the girls i met there was off the scale. many are just plain crazy. Originally Posted by Asianhobbyist

I had that same problem on greatexpectations

As for speed dating from what I heard they will set it up with women in your age group.
There won't be any twentysomethings the youngest would be fortysomething

I had that same problem on greatexpectations

As for speed dating from what I heard they will set it up with women in your age group.
There won't be any twentysomethings the youngest would be fortysomething Originally Posted by zerodahero

I wouldn't bother with speed dating. The concept is good, right? Fast 'dates' in 5 min intervals with a bunch of females, so you throw a bunch of mud to the wall and one turd is bound to stick, no?

Truth is, it really is a waste of time. I tried it twice and I have yet to see a young, attractive female there. It's mostly 30s and 40s fat hags wearing too much war paint and 5 min with these females is like an eternity.

Save your money and time from the dating websites and speed dating scams. If you want a quick lay, go to the bar and hunt. If you want a mate, get yourself out there and start scoping.

Ask family members to hook you up with a friend of theirs but make sure you aren't related to them. Also, have a good wingman who might know a few ladies he can pass around to you but don't be surprised if he asks for a threesome. Order a mail-order bride but expect her to leave once she gets her green card. Go to church and accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior; that should impress an old maid.

As mentioned previously, you might consider getting into a club or activity that interest you. I am in a club that that has single women and sometimes I meet other single women while doing activities with the club.

Also, I'd consider dating a woman of a different race or culture, such as an Asian woman. Asian women are delightful. As were the educated black women I've met in the Turks and Cacaos Islands. They are enjoyable and interesting women to converse with.

Asian women are delightful. As were the educated black women I've met in the Turks and Caicos Islands. They are enjoyable and interesting women to converse with. Originally Posted by nightdiver

Agree completely with Asian and those gorgeous TI women...among the jewels of the Caribbean

Go to church and accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior; that should impress an old maid. Originally Posted by Wolfwhistle

Was auch immer Sie tun nicht dieses zu tun !!!
[Whatever you do DO NOT do this one!!!]

Some good feedback in all that, thanks. Actually starting to get some hits on Match, and spoken to a few likely candidates, but it sure is hard work. I think for the time being, I'm gonna continue having me some Eccie fun with our lovely hot-MILF's and take my time.

Any decent looking woman on a dating website is getting tons of emails. Kinda hard for yours to even get noticed, and most of the decent ones come off like a total bitch in their profile. They just have a laundry list of demands for their men.
Like you said it's hard work, unless you don't mind getting with a fat one. I've banged a couple that I wouldn't be caught dead in public with.ha

Stay single. Get more involved in other hobbies. I'm sure there are things you want to do and haven't done yet. Do those. Im sure youll meet someone as soon as you stop looking. Sometimes i cant tell if being in a relationship is a blessing or a curse. If your used to having to care of things or people get a pet. If you get horny you have the hobby. I'd rather die happy alone, than miserable with company. If you can't be happy without being in a relationship you may have other issues.