(...)So it's a woman's fault if someone can't understand "no"? We see many wonderful gents and we try to make their time special. Rarely, we run into men who have their own issues and, for no fault of our own, they have boundary issues. Stalking is never the victim's fault. A woman cannot be blamed for it because she did her job well, it's backwards thinking.
1. Stalkers are real because of the "connection" y'all create to many of the guys it's real to y'all it just part of the illusion! You paranoid or something if someone knocks on my door I'm thinking it's a Jehovah Witness not a stalker (idk maybe they count as stalkers).
(...) Originally Posted by Sheep Herder
As for being paranoid, in this job, paranoia keeps us safe. When someone knocks at my door at my incall, it better be someone I expect or no, I'm not opening the door. It would be stupid to do so. We screen clients, we go with our instincts, we try to protect ourselves from getting harm as much as we can, and we protect our clients' information because both them and us have much to lose. Paranoia means safety here, for both clients and us.