Double standard

It took me a month to get verifed with 1 escort. I said to myself....f*orget her.
In my book, escorts talking badly is a turn off. Thats my option and i reserve the right to spend my money as i please. I still have 2 hands.
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There was no demanding she asked me to fill out her contact form I filled out her contact form for verification and got nothing but crickets. I find it very discourteous to not even answer someone even if you are not interested it's rude and I was always taught manners Originally Posted by yankees927
Bonus score for using the word "discourteous" in the correct context and spelling.
It's nice to see the other end of the scary mood swing loop that usually has you typing "U R A STTOPID CUNT GEMMA!" Anybody who pays a little attention to the ICT boards knows who the fuck you are.

Did it occur to you that Emmie might have had a little trouble checking your shitty $60 backpage trick references in the middle of the night, all between when you said you were going to bed and when you started bitching about her a few hours later?
Look at the times on the fucking posts: http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1732213


Not a rhetorical question- what was your actual game plan for lighting her up just a few hours later?.. like she was going to say "Oh, you're totally not that crazy stalker motherfucker from Topeka who always posts this exact same shit? Come have a free overnight!"

Smooothe, Frogger. Stick to the D list.
SpicyOnion's Avatar
Normally I don't agree with Gemma, but I hate to say this...she is absolutely right, thanks for a self alert post and good luck in this hobby with that same handle and attitude (even if you change your handle).
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  • Emmie
  • 05-31-2016, 03:23 PM
Your actions on this thread , the 7 messages within a short time frame is EXACTLY why I DIDNT contact YOU back. So the next time you want to get on here and try to talk shit about me and how I run my business you might want to look at YOUR actions!!
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Let's try to have a discussion without the name calling please.

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  • Emmie
  • 05-31-2016, 03:26 PM
Fuck you psycho. Originally Posted by Gemma34
Muah**"
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I agree completely with Emmie, as well as Gemma! Sounds like he's stalking. We don't have to see or reply to someone we don't wish to! We also have lives outside of this, just as men do too!! If I had that many messages in such a short time frame...I wouldn't be responding either!
Since when is there a rule that says the provider HAS to respond to someone?? I've never heard that before. Maybe it's how you address someone and if you are unintentionally rude, arrogant, vulgar, dismissive, evasive, dishonest, etc., and the provider sees through it, it's not her fault you lost your chance. Or maybe she has better things to do. You not calling or not showing to an appointment may be the reason you're getting the cold shoulder. There is a reason for everything but not a rule. Just saying
Your actions on this thread , the 7 messages within a short time frame is EXACTLY why I DIDNT contact YOU back. So the next time you want to get on here and try to talk shit about me and how I run my business you might want to look at YOUR actions!! Originally Posted by Emmie

Love you Miss Emmie and Miss Gemma, tell it how it is, what I like about the both these 2 fine ladies.

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Well how stupid do you have to be to rail on Emmie. I have only seen her once but have pm'd with her on other times. You will not find a sweeter lady who will do her best to accomidate.

However be an ass & you see that the claws can come out.
Well manners are hard to come by on this board, if you were not interested, common courtesy is you let that hobbyist know, not ignore them. My actions are those of a newbie who may not know different, but hey, to each side own. Miss emmie I still have the utmost respect for you as a provider. GEMMA, you are classless
Well manners are hard to come by on this board, if you were not interested, common courtesy is you let that hobbyist know, not ignore them. My actions are those of a newbie who may not know different, but hey, to each side own. Miss emmie I still have the utmost respect for you as a provider. GEMMA, you are classless Originally Posted by yankees927
I have a feeling Gemma is heart broken.
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1. You went from saying you'd send her the form in the morning, to sending it that very night. Then blew up the thread with posts from that point until 8AM the next day. I don't know about her, but I'm generally in bed by 11PM and waking up around 7-8AM. Meaning, I wouldn't have even begun to screen you until after waking up the next day.

2. Sometimes it can take 24 hours or MORE to hear back from references. When you are newer, you're at the mercy of hoping your references are quick to respond.

3. It is not against the rules here to not respond. If you want membership at a site that requires response within a certain window, I suggest P411. We are expected to answer within a reasonable timeframe (but, reasonable there is still considered 3 days).

4. Your threads make you look a bit off balance, impatient, and clingy. Always good to keep in mind that nobody here owes you anything. Some are polite, some aren't. Some are fast, some are slow. Some have a lot of hoops to jump through, some don't.
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  • Emmie
  • 05-31-2016, 08:53 PM
1. You went from saying you'd send her the form in the morning, to sending it that very night. Then blew up the thread with posts from that point until 8AM the next day. I don't know about her, but I'm generally in bed by 11PM and waking up around 7-8AM. Meaning, I wouldn't have even begun to screen you until after waking up the next day.

2. Sometimes it can take 24 hours or MORE to hear back from references. When you are newer, you're at the mercy of hoping your references are quick to respond.

3. It is not against the rules here to not respond. If you want membership at a site that requires response within a certain window, I suggest P411. We are expected to answer within a reasonable timeframe (but, reasonable there is still considered 3 days).

4. Your threads make you look a bit off balance, impatient, and clingy. Always good to keep in mind that nobody here owes you anything. Some are polite, some aren't. Some are fast, some are slow. Some have a lot of hoops to jump through, some don't. Originally Posted by GracePreston
Amen!! Also, just wanted to say I absolutely LOVED your ad title!!
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  • Emmie
  • 05-31-2016, 08:55 PM
Well manners are hard to come by on this board, if you were not interested, common courtesy is you let that hobbyist know, not ignore them. My actions are those of a newbie who may not know different, but hey, to each side own. Miss emmie I still have the utmost respect for you as a provider. GEMMA, you are classless Originally Posted by yankees927
I can tell you have the utmost respect for me by starting 2 threads trying to bash me.