Hey all, I'm new to the hobby with only my first encounter under my belt. Tried to set something up tonight and the provider was quite accommodating to a request for a visit an hr out. Upon arriving at the address at the scheduled time I asked for the room number, but got no reply. I asked again, no reply. After 25 minutes I headed home, and got a text 10 minutes into the drive saying she was ready.
As I'm still wet behind the ears I'm not sure if me taking off was rude or not. My gut said head home & I asked if she would be in town for a bit so we could try to meet again, but have gotten no response. I'm trying to avoid making the wrong kind of name for myself, and I was wondering; how long do you think is reasonable to wait in a parking lot for a provider to get back to you without coming off as suspicious to those who may be watching?
Originally Posted by Willhurk
Until you find out who you like and who is dependable you might want to consider always having a plan B. With someone I've seen before and enjoyed, I don't mind waiting 15-30 minutes. I always have a plan B. I reach out to plan B after about 15 minutes to check for availability. If plan A contacts me after I have confirmed with plan B, stick with plan B and tell A you are sorry, but you are not going to cancel with someone who was better at TCB