GFE and Old Coots

Op. I think you already know your answer. Much is in your own mind and obviously you and a 20ish-yr old cannot possibly share the same cultural bonds. Imo, regarding the younger providers, she is there willing to be that for you, but you, as the person with more life experience, need to find with her the common ground in which to build that experience. Find out about her, then you can help guide the experience into a place of sharing. This is also why some of the more experienced providers want at least a 90min first time. To "get to know you". They already understand this and know how to guide you through that process.

Good luck
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I highly suggest you try out the agency Latin Queens. Right now they have two of the most GFE providers out there. Both have tons of reviews confirming this. Lesly and Orianna. If you never tried TUMA go Lesly, but if you want a college girl friend flashback, I'd go with Orianna. Be nice and gentle with her and you'll have a great time.
Just remove your life alert lanierd before you start a session.
I've heard some of you like erotic electro play.

Defibrillator on standby.
I'm old enough to be a grandpa for many of the younger providers. I often choose a provider based on reviews indicating a good GFE. I can't say that I've had a great GFE. A question for the ladies, am I expecting too much? Should I be looking for older providers? Originally Posted by timetolive
I'm 58. I do read reviews and look for GFE friendly providers. Originally Posted by timetolive
Firstly, 58 is not old, imo. 78 is, lols. Not that there's anything wrong with being 78 either; I've met with plenty a silver haired gent in my time, and have always enjoyed the sessions.

I would say (and yes, this is a bit self serving here) to go with ladies only 30+.

I am sure as a male there is that appeal of banging a "hot and young thing", but if you are finding yourself routinely disappointed, that might be for a reason.

It is the same reason I won't go with gents in my personal life, who are under the age of 35, and sometimes even that seems a bit young for me.

Life maturity also means sexual maturity, which is in no way, a bad thing.
Give me a silver Fox who can hold a conversation and still Fuck like a champ over a youngster any day! Age is just a number they say, maybe be specific on the types of gfe activities your looking for?
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Möchten Sie auf einem Bein hier, aber wenn die Sozialversicherungsnummer 000-00-0001 'Jesus dann glaube ich ist das 000-00-0009 des OP sein kann
[Going out on a limb here, but if Jesus' social security number is 000-00-0001 then I believe the OP's may be 000-00-0009]
:shrug: Originally Posted by Dorian Gray
Well fuck then mine must be 000-00-0003
I agree with FancyinHeels... I say give an older provider a go.... Like me!
I know what you want, what you need , and I know how to keep you feeling young.
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58 is young for most of these girls. and like Al Bundy said,, under 30 year old guys are not paying their bills... I did not have $1000's of disposable income when I was 25
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Maybe we need another "experience" label? The sugar daddy experience, SDE. You yourself said you could be their grandfather. What twenty-something lady/girl wants to have that experience?

It might be just in your head. If you go in thinking that way, you project that going in and allow it to ruin your session. I recommend communicating with her, before meeting, that she is a fantasy GFE. Or SDE perhaps.

So far I'm still in that "dirty perverted uncle" phase myself. That's precisely why I don't pay for certain providers 99% of the time. It helps with that feeling of getting too close to the skin.

I don't know what to say about the way she would feel. But maybe trying a woman in her mid thirties to early forties. A fantastic and fit figure with first-rate features. Tits and ass have to be high and tight.
Give me a silver Fox who can hold a conversation and still Fuck like a champ over a youngster any day! Originally Posted by nikkivikkisix
Mmmm yes, I heartily agree!
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Without taint photos we will never know ...

The OP is 58? IS that 58 in provider years? If it is he should just donate his cadaver to the nearest med school.
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People of similar ages are usually in better tune psychologically and socially, an important factor if spending more than an hour in someone's company as conversation is bound to occur.


Originally Posted by Fancyinheels
First, I hope the red doesn't clash with the green.

Second, I think the laws of attraction are an exception. Usually the closer the generation gap, the more both are comfortable. But on many occasions, the "older handsome gentleman" schtick has afforded me some hot, young and very willing girls almost half my age. No extensive conversation necessary. IJS,
I agree with you .. if the right girl is seen than the experience can be different. I love older men and would be able to hold conversation as well as anyone who is older than me, just because i'm at that maturity level. However, i'm also a cute, fun, and bubbly teen who has enough stamina to last for hours .. with a young mature provider .. the fun is endless.




First, I hope the red doesn't clash with the green.

Second, I think the laws of attraction are an exception. Usually the closer the generation gap, the more both are comfortable. But on many occasions, the "older handsome gentleman" schtick has afforded me some hot, young and very willing girls almost half my age. No extensive conversation necessary. IJS, Originally Posted by eccieuser9500
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I'm old enough to be a grandpa for many of the younger providers. I often choose a provider based on reviews indicating a good GFE. I can't say that I've had a great GFE. A question for the ladies, am I expecting too much? Should I be looking for older providers? Originally Posted by timetolive
You are very much Appreciated sweetie by many and I love Well Seasoned Gents Happy Hobbying!

Many of these Providers advertising that they're in their "20's", aren't Even in Their "20's". They're in their 30's.