Wife wants to be a part time escort

ditto...the risks can destroy your life & your marriage

this business can be scarey at times..............risks of being outed/raped/robbed/arrested/blackmailed.



now those are worse case scenerios but if things are going great with yall like it is now,then don't do it! Originally Posted by DallasRain

I agree....If you want to end your happy marriage go ahead.....otherwise DO NOT DO IT

well I guess I am "the exception to the rule" also............
My SO and I have been in an open type relationship for over 30 years and it has worked out nicely! He loves what I do and is proud of me for who I am and how I "take care of my business".........he does know a few of my longtime regulars and has been to a few parties....I even hire him a gal once in awhile. for his entertainment....we were swingers back in our younger days till I got "outed" at a party in New Mexico...now we just attend a few clubs once in awhile.

He is never around when I entertain.........he does not run my business or interfere...he says that is my deal.....he is not my pimp,but rather my rock to lean on for encouragemnet & strength when i need it and my biggest fan!

Now I will add that what I said earlier I stand by..this business is not for any ordinary kinda couple........so proceed with caution...
I wish yall the best in whatever yall choose to do! Originally Posted by DallasRain

I think met you and your hubby for the first time the day before our first session. If so, I remember him being a very nice person, and how well you both ‘clicked’.
I knew I found an ‘Eccie’ soulmate in you.

There are a few ladies but one in particular very popular and she is beautiful and gorgeous, her husband stays by the sidelines!

Thank you all for the insight, varying points and pros and cons regarding my question. After several lengthy conversations, taking in all of the considerations involved and valuable advice given, we have ultimately settled on not moving forward with this chapter in our lives. Thank you all again, I feel we seriously dodged a bullet with what could have potentially (for us) been a very big mistake.

Hey Remy, that's what we're here for! Glad you did your homework and due diligence. Plenty of fun to be had as an open minded couple, without the complications and risks of this underworld. Good luck to you, and take care out there!

Sir, i am glad and proud of your decision.

I know I wouldn't want my wife/SO doing it either.

Remember - "escort" is just the polite way of saying it.

But hey, you could just try easing into it - if she's cute and does Greek, I might have an offer for ya ;-)) Just try it with a guy or two from here and see how it goes.

But hey, you could just try easing into it - if she's cute and does Greek, I might have an offer for ya ;-)) Just try it with a guy or two from here and see how it goes. Originally Posted by OldYeller

You were the kid who got all the other kids at school in trouble, weren't you?

Sick puppies here

That's the line that gives me hope ya'll might be fine. If you both are titillated by the idea of "slut wife turning tricks" great! Wait at home and let her tell you fun adventures she's had if she wants. I do agree with Camille that you should never look at the site again if she joins up.

I also warn you escorting is not just about sex...if she's worth her salt she'll start to pick up clients and appointments that have an emotional component as well. Yes it's work, but clients are not just a penis with a wallet attached. Originally Posted by SA Angel

"Yes it's work, but clients are not just a penis with a wallet attached." What?? You are in the minority with this view!

"Yes it's work, but clients are not just a penis with a wallet attached." What?? You are in the minority with this view! Originally Posted by badhusband

I think you'll find that a majority opinion in SA. Well at least the wonderful women I've had the pleasure of knowing both in and/or out of the bedroom!

I wish you a great adventure. If you do decide to go full throttle, pm me, im interested in coming over for a hour tryout, you can be in the room, outside the room, heck we can tag team if you want. ...but I'm not paying extra if we tag team.

I say it is pretty awesome and confident of you to roll the dice and play this risky game. I wouldn't advise it with a marriage, but you only live once so do what you want to do! Again, I don't advise it but the fact that you're thinking about it is pretty exciting!!

SA Angel awesome reply, great advice as always! Btw I think I love you >.< xoxox

Another thing, stay out of her business. Nothing will turn off clients faster than a guy running things. If this is really something she wants to do for herself, I would just come home, ask her if she had a good day, and that is the exact end of it all. Don't read reviews, don't look at the ML, deactivate your account. You may think you can handle it, but if you cant, you will only bring grief to your life and hers.

Best of luck. Originally Posted by Camille Fox

Yeah, I agree with Camille. And don't read the reviews for sure, unless that actually turns you on. I've just seen it happen and to be honest that's kinda why I don't encourage reviews. I feel like I have a bond with my clients and I don't want them to have to see what I've done differently or how and when with someone else. I kind of get a little jealous when I see reviews (not the r.o.s. of course) myself... but I try to remind myself this is all fun ^.^

I wish you a great adventure. If you do decide to go full throttle, pm me, im interested in coming over for a hour tryout, you can be in the room, outside the room, heck we can tag team if you want. ...but I'm not paying extra if we tag team. Originally Posted by SanAntonman

Lol you're so cool. Well played Sir.

Another thing, stay out of her business. Nothing will turn off clients faster than a guy running things. If this is really something she wants to do for herself, I would just come home, ask her if she had a good day, and that is the exact end of it all. Don't read reviews, don't look at the ML, deactivate your account. You may think you can handle it, but if you cant, you will only bring grief to your life and hers.

Best of luck. Originally Posted by Camille Fox

Not to threadjack, but you are the bomb lady!!!

Evening all, a couple of years ago I posted a thread in regard to my wife becoming an escort, we have decided to follow thru with that scenario. Wish us luck, I’m sure it’s gonna be a bumpy ride