DATY Question for Providers

Always a plus / Im always fresh out of the shower for an appointment so DATY is always a invitation. I think it's just the right thing to get things started intimately that way. Just like a BJ is always the way to get a man ready for a wonderful time

Well said Old-T, very well said.

In my opinion--and ecperience--it is about two people enjoying each other's company, and if I help her enjoy herself she usually helps me enjoy myself more. Then we part as friends who both look forward to meeting each other at some future time. Originally Posted by Old-T

That's been my experience and feelings regarding the situation as well. I'm glad I'm not along in this though.

Apparently you are picking the wrong women. 8 out of 10 women in my hobby experience are just as interested in enjoying the experience. It is very difficult to fake the internal pulsation from women she is having an orgasm.

Northern: It can be hit or miss on DATY with a provider. In my research on a lady, I determine if DATY is something that she is interested in or enjoy. Not wanting to engage in or not typically enjoying the experience can be a deal breaker for me. I can count on one hand the number of ladies that did not enjoy or want DATY during our sessions. Originally Posted by cafriend

+1

Northern: the older a provider is the more they enjoy it.
a lot have experience some bad DATY and digits (Fingering).
like a bad BJ, it is just hard to enjoy "bad".


i start DATY with soft slow licks and try to read her body reactions.
and no digits (no fingers).

Daty is always a plus if the guy knows what he's doing and actually enjoys doing it. I can't stand head when a guy licks like a kitten trying to lap up a bowl of milk.. get into it lol

Daty is always a plus if the guy knows what he's doing and actually enjoys doing it. I can't stand head when a guy licks like a kitten trying to lap up a bowl of milk.. get into it lol Originally Posted by CaramelChanelle

As Sam Kinison once joked "guys need to lick the alphabet, especially on capitol T, but most have one stroke like they are painting a fence."

I have always tried to remember Sam's advice in the heat of the moment. It works like a charm.

I really enjoy it and if it's done well it's even that much better but so many guys FAIL at DATY so if you are really into it please be good at it. Originally Posted by TabithaBash

If you ever make it to KC I'd love to have my talents judged by you. I'm always open to improve!

So ladies please give us a few specifics technical tips on how you like oral sex done on you. We all want to improve our skills...help us out.

OMG!!! I love daty. LoL that's why I have a live in girlfriend haha I can NOT. Live without getting licked but I hate when men can't do it right like suck my clit dammit!! Lick it fast then slow down tease me!! I have a little clit though so I need more sucking on the area then just licking. But my girlfriend has a big clit that sticks out. She's too sensitive to be sucked I can only lick it or wrap my lips around it and lick. But she cums hard. Her whole body trembles and her cum drips out with pressure hard to explain. But man....I love daty haha man or woman!!!

Well....considering that I have what amounts to a "pussy eating fetish".....It's just about mandatory with any woman....provider or real world girl friend....

My experience is that if you do a good job on DATY and really make it good for her....she'll repay that by being more pleasing to you in return...

I will say that my skills in this area are a source of pride for me!....but always willing to learn new tricks....so girls, if you have any suggestions...do tell!!!

P.S....To the gentleman who said these girls are all just paid fucks who can't wait to get rid of you....dude...you're doing something wrong!

Personally, I've had more than a few providers become nominal friends including one retired provider who I still get together with when I'm in town because we just like sex with each other...Remember...these girls are human beings too! Start a session with the mind set that you will insure her pleasure as much as your own...will take you far.

Completely think providers could make money by offering training sessions. I am always up for more practice and learning and want to be with a provider who enjoys herself.

Admittedly, my experience is not vast. But my ears have been used as thigh rests by more than a couple of ladies now, and I'm ready to claim that the women are more diverse in what they like in this way than in, perhaps, any other. Thus, I scoff at the notion of any of us guys knowing, a priori, "how to do it right." I think the only way to do it right, going in (pun intended), is to listen to what she says, assuming she's willing to give feedback.

Really: some want energy, and some want subtlety. Some want speed, some want deliberation. Some want a digit, some want no digit(s). Some want directness, some want "off to the side." I'm pretty sure that no two are alike. They say "one man's meat is another man's poison." I'd say "one woman's ideal cunnilingus is another woman's criminal sexual assault." I certainly enjoy my dining pleasure, but on the way south, I usually invite instruction. Sometimes I get it. Sometimes I don't. One of life's mysteries.

The prostitutes do not want you touching them at all. That is why they get paid, to tolerate you, to not vomit when you touch them, and not act repulsed when you go down on them. If they wanted your touch, your lick, your advances, you would not have to pay her, get it? Prostitutes typically act like she is having an orgasm in order to get you to stop, reality is she is not into it, not into you, she wants you to stop and cum so her momentary Iobligation to perform ends. Chit chat a little, much easier for her than acting like a climax,. It is all about the dollars my friend and for a price you can find a prostitute to act and tell you whatever you want to hear but if you want to feel the satisfaction of pleasing your partner you have to find a real girlfriend. This is merely masterbation by proxy. No passion, no desire on her part, and feeling. Originally Posted by Boudin3112

Wow! sounds like you haven't had a lot of luck finding any genuine ladies who actually enjoy what they do. Such as myself, there are actually ladies in this business who really do enjoy spending time with their gentlemen friends.

Hugs,
Juliette

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