Spontaneous or planned?

I'm a same-day kinda guy (within 2 hours is even better). I personally don't understand how you can plan something like that out several days in advance. When I'm hungry, I want to eat. I don't make reservations for next Thursday. Originally Posted by swarmyone

me plus one and i have a 60 mile drive sometimes.......

Back when I partook, I always went the spontaneous route. Sometimes it worked out, sometimes it didn't. 95% of the time I was OC'ing to my house, so it's not like I was controlling when the meet would occur, they showed when they showed.

The one time I did IC, it was with Stacy, and she was gracious enough to let me come over with a couple hours notice. She's established enough to keep me from being too paranoid.

I was worried that more than one person was planning for my arrival, so I hardly ever did IC. I can maintain control of things better at home.

For me, its both. I do spontaneous when certain stars align in my life and I need to meet someone sooner rather than later. I may mentally plan something out but, I've not had much luck with scheduling a planned thing... so typically, on a "planned" deal. I just try to contact the lady I'm interested in as early as possible on the day I want to see them. For some, they can fit me right into their schedule. Others... "So how's 5 days from now?" Um... not going to work for me. "On To The Next One" #Jay-Z

To see someone who I have been looking forward to meeting, I prefer a planned encounter. That way I can prepare, plan, and anticipate.

But there are those times when it is 10 o'clock and I think "Man, I'd like a good throwdown right now". It's why I wish Kansas City had a real massage parlor like you can find in most other major cities. The ability to just drive to a spa, get a rubdown and a release of some kind, and then head home is a precious thing.

Remember the day KCQ, that we could do that exact thing....

Exect. Suite, Vip, Magic touch and all the other wonder MP KC had in 80's\

Anybody remember the name of the palor off Vivien Road...it had the English Room??
Think something like New Era?