Tips on communicating with a lady......

CoverMe

Nothing negative...believe me. Just having fun and been wanting to point out that you're a kiss ass.

Bro, it's all in good fun. If we worked together, or best friends, or I only know you from my bar, or your my brother or in my family, and I think you're a kiss ass, I will be ripping on you.

I will not change myself for no one. Thanks for your advice, but I happen to be doing plenty fine with ladies...providers and rw.

Like me or not, for who and what I am.

"Smokey, you know I'm not the smartest man in the world, but from over here it looks like you're taking a shit!"...Ezell

Francisca has plenty of very enthusiastic high-fives already from very established gents. She doesn't need (but always appreciates) another one from me.

You would do your hobby cred a big favor by getting on her "High Five" list, as well. It sounds like you're halfway there. Just stop framing your posts in negative tones and you might see a nice turnaround in the responses you get from the ladies. Originally Posted by CoverMe

I never understood ladies who brag about being a hooker for 10+ years. Congrats on being a career hooker I guess. Thanks for the tips darlin.

I never understood ladies who brag about being a hooker for 10+ years. Congrats on being a career hooker I guess. Thanks for the tips darlin. Originally Posted by russellevans

I do not nderstand why you say I am bragging.
Could you direct me to, or quote where I was bragging?

I do not understand why a man paying for sex is somehow better than a woman charging for sex. I do not understand discrimination in any manner.

I do not understand why being a "hooker" for 10+yrs is something to be ashamed of. This is a very tough business to be in, and any lady that is successful for even 5 years should be proud!

I do not understand why a career as a "hooker" is a bad thing. Many ladies have made hookin a career and have been VERY successful. Gina, the owner of P411 comes to mind.

Thank you for the congrats, but Hookin is a part time job for me, not my career. Many ladies have real life careers and also enjoy the many benefits of being hookers on the side.

There are many bad apples in this business. These bad apples are bad regardless of their career choice. The nature of this business allows them to survive much easier than in a 9 to 5.

You are welcome for the tips Darlin- anytime you need a little guidance, feel free to contact me

Besos,
Francisca

I, for one, appreciate the advice. It can be a little confusing trying to communicate through impersonal settings like PM's. Some providers tell how to communicate and what information to provide. Others are not so clear. This post is a helpful perspective. Thank you, Francisca.

I, for one, appreciate the advice. It can be a little confusing trying to communicate through impersonal settings like PM's. Some providers tell how to communicate and what information to provide. Others are not so clear. This post is a helpful perspective. Thank you, Francisca. Originally Posted by Migster

Thank you Sir

Your initial PM was perfect. You were kind, provided reference, gave a general idea of when you wanted to meet.

The day we met you were a gentleman. Nice convo, clean, great time bcd and you tip!

A wonderful experience from beginning to end!

besos,
Francisca

I've been one of the few who met Francisca in the real world before this. I would say HI to her at socials, when we both happened to be there, but it wasn't till last year when we finally got together. When she mentioned to me she was moving back to Spain, I gave her one of my hats as a keepsake to remember me by. When she visited months later was when I finally got to see her BCD.
She made me feel like an old lover who finally got together.
If it wasn't for personal reasons, I would have seen her this time around and I'm still hoping I will before she leaves again.
I feel very relaxed with her and have learned so much from her. For that, I will always be grateful and that I can call her both a friend, and a lover.
Besos Mi Amor

Thank you Sir

Your initial PM was perfect. You were kind, provided reference, gave a general idea of when you wanted to meet.

The day we met you were a gentleman. Nice convo, clean, great time bcd and you tip!

A wonderful experience from beginning to end!

besos,
Francisca Originally Posted by Ms Francisca

+1

Interesting and very helpful post. I may have done it wrong all along although I never had a particular problem setting up a meeting. I usually just pm desired time and duration and something nice. The activities depend on the menu anyway. Some ladies request detailed information upfront (race, beard, tattoos etc) but most don't. Of course I have a detailed profile on p411 (and I usually contact through Eccie AND p411) but nobody ever seems to read that from what I can tell.

We're all people, bottom line, and we all appreciate respect and courtesy. Start your relationships here that way and you will have happy endings long time.

I ask for a date and time, length of session, expected donation, specialty services, and location. I then give 3 refs and a description of myself - height, weight, color hair, ethnicity, endowment description if new-to-me YMMV Greek date, hobbies. Then it's in their court.

Lots of good advice (and wisdom) above, and, if I may add my dos centavos:

For the ladies:
1) ladies make the rules, and
2) ladies must make sure that the gents know and understand the lady's rules

For the gents:
1) Try to understand (and comply) with the lady's rules during your requesting/screening pre-appointment process
2) Best NOT to try to over come the lady's process; just move on
3) Always best to do thorough research before requesting a session

For all of us:
1) Think out what you want to say when you feel you must post something. Once written, not always easy to walk it back or even edit (within the alloted 60 minutes) before some one out there see and copies -- and maybe re-posts. Alcohol-induced/influenced posts? Best left blank.

2) Remember, this is a "hobby" not a dating site.

Jigga Man....I can help you out! I love role playing and domination. I'll be glad to make you my slave.