Are you REALLY a newbie ....

I know I don't have any references or anyone I've asked to use as a reference ahead of time. But I've found I don't have any trouble seeing whoever I want to see, even without references. I must have some mental block about references, because when I'm out job hunting, I won't give out references either. Take me for what I am, or don't take me.

Nothing is worth giving out any type of information about myself that I don't want to give out. So I don't give out anyone's name or number for them to check on me and If someone insists on references then I don't see them, and quite frankly, its no sweat off my back. I just move on to the next person that is eagerly grabbing for my Benjamins. Yet, for some reason, I get all I can handle. I average about 24 different woman a year and have at least 6 that I see on a regular basis. While I'll probably never get to see the high end girls or even some of the woman here on ECCIE because I won't provide references or any other identifying information, I don't feel like I'm missing out on anything.

I got accidentally outed and had to create a new ID, so I learned my lesson. You get my hobby # and hobby name. The only real thing I'll give out is my cash. Everything else is fake. . I haven't been burned yet, nor have I burned any providers, and I get along just fine.

But with all that said, if I actually wanted to see someone that required references and wouldn't budge, I would have to pass (and so would she) because to her I'd be a "newbie" with no references.

I’m still new. I have seen 3 nice girls who can vouch for me. Only one review because others asked not to write one. Been a lurker too but that’s because of so many choices how do you pick !! Lol

I sometimes do not understand when I receive a message from a guy and he claims he is a newbie but when I look at his profile he's been active since 2017 no encounters but several iso post. How could you be a newbie and not seen any providers in a year? I understand because of the shutdown there is a gap. But some of these guys be really trolling... Originally Posted by Carmella_love69

If all of those conditions are met I would wonder too.
1. Claims to be a newbie.
2. Has an account for months or years
3. No encounters
4. Posting ISOs

I'm not saying there couldn't be a reason but if I was a provider I might be skeptical unless they came thru with some solid references (but if they had solid references they really aren't newbies like they claim).

I’m still new. I have seen 3 nice girls who can vouch for me. Only one review because others asked not to write one. Been a lurker too but that’s because of so many choices how do you pick !! Lol Originally Posted by 1life

I can understand that. But you have someone to vouch for you. I don't exclude someone just because they don't have reviews. I understand some clients like discretion, but most have least a provider that will give a okay. And with DFW having the biggest platform, and beautiful woman ....how does it take so long to pick lol

If all of those conditions are met I would wonder too.
1. Claims to be a newbie.
2. Has an account for months or years
3. No encounters
4. Posting ISOs

I'm not saying there couldn't be a reason but if I was a provider I might be skeptical unless they came thru with some solid references (but if they had solid references they really aren't newbies like they claim). Originally Posted by L.A.

Yesss. Thats all. Is just skeptical and i dont take risk. But im never rude and just ask that once they have refrences i will be more open. Lol

I joined 8 years ago and have 1 review. In my case I for some damn reason got a RW girlfriend for 6 years so really haven't been on here til recently. With that being said I have tried to schedule with certain providers but I don't have references because I was out wasting time on the RW G/F..

I understand no reviews. I understand lurkers. But being a member for years and then contacting a lady claiming she’s the first one he’s decided to see. That I don’t get. I’m special but not THAT special!

Seems like they’re hiding their true identity.

If he's been out the hobby for an extended amount of time he has to start back somewhere, so you could be the one that catches his attention..

If he said that, that’s somewhat plausible. But why me? No ads...no reviews...I just find it highly suspect. Even the ones who say they are agency or amp guys make sense. Ijs

If he said that, that’s somewhat plausible. But why me? No ads...no reviews...I just find it highly suspect. Even the ones who say they are agency or amp guys make sense. Ijs Originally Posted by B Three

Cause you bake cookies would be my reasoning

I have been reading these forums for about 14 months now
I joined a month ago.
This is my first post.
I have not hobbied..

clearly i lurk.

Very Good Start Sir ..

I’m still new. I have seen 3 nice girls who can vouch for me. Only one review because others asked not to write one. Been a lurker too but that’s because of so many choices how do you pick !! Lol Originally Posted by 1life

Do You Men Care if she screens or ask for references or don't give a shit ?

When she screens , and how ever she goes about it
Do you feel more at ease for your safety ?

I can understand that. But you have someone to vouch for you. I don't exclude someone just because they don't have reviews. I understand some clients like discretion, but most have least a provider that will give a okay. And with DFW having the biggest platform, and beautiful woman ....how does it take so long to pick lol Originally Posted by Carmella_love69

Work schedule for one is brutal. Then aligning with your schedule. Then like you said all theses beautiful woman such as yourself is like a kid in a candy store. But I also find trouble asking questions that would help decide. I know how precious time is , I know we have to be cautious with what we say so there’s that. I also don’t want to be rude or demeaning with requests. I’ve always been too nice of a guy in the RW to ask can I FF you and then COF or down your throat. I fantasize about it and that’s why I’m here. To check off bucket list items. But still being respectful makes it hard. Sorry for the long response Carmella but maybe you can or another provider can offer advise. Take care and I hope to see you one day with your sexy ass !!!!

Cause you bake cookies would be my reasoning Originally Posted by Get N,Get Out

Lol. Perhaps.