QUESTION

You did the right thing Jen. A guy like that is a potential danger to the whole community.

How do others feel about a provider that has bbfs on the menu? Or being asked by a provider that does not normally offer it? As I have been asked!!! Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

Yes, for the flip side perspective. "In the heat of the moment", I have had 3 providers directly ask for insertion sans condom, another implied it would be ok. I refused them all, and have resisted repeating. And for the record, I only see reputable providers. It happens, I guess.

Ive only had one older guy ask.. said he was clipped.. I said that doesnt matter what if I have something?? As careful as you can be its not fool proof to catch something.. he didnt press it or be rude so I was cool and I explained what if I do? Do you want it? Originally Posted by LynnT

So as he was cool with what you said. And it sounds like things went on with a cover. How one reacted does matter?

You did the right thing Jen. A guy like that is a potential danger to the whole community. Originally Posted by MC

Danger as how he acted, or for asking?

Yes, for the flip side perspective. "In the heat of the moment", I have had 3 providers directly ask for insertion sans condom, another implied it would be ok. I refused them all, and have resisted repeating. And for the record, I only see reputable providers. It happens, I guess. Originally Posted by mwebber

I would not say a provider is not reputable if on her menu, or asked. Was not Spitzer's provider a HDH, and reputable?

I did repeat with. But will not say if I did or didn't partake.

No condom is fool prof. Male or female condom. So any risk is still there. Just less if a condom is used.

I have heard from the grapevine that the price of BBFS is coming down. And is more available near upstate. Not just high dollar rollers as in Spitzer's case. And more than just a few as is the case currently in Upstate. So as long as you use one. Is it right to condemn others that do not. As the risk is always there.

I agree that it is not right to force anyone. But if asked, and that other did it your way with. Or passed(or you passed) without being rude. Is he/she really a risk to all? I would have to say no.

I have had more problems with my pecker from being a coffee drinker than from BBBJ and or BBFS. And yet that does put me at more risk of getting or passing something. As cut from passing stones, or a virus is a virus no matter how you got it. And yes drinking to much coffee and or tea can give one a infection. Not just stones to be passed.

Danger as how he acted, or for asking? Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

For asking in the first place.

BBFS is the riddle wrapped in a mystery inside an enigma of the hobby.

You will not likely see the truth here, but most know what the truth is.

For asking in the first place. Originally Posted by MC

I disagree. But thanks for the answer. I respect you and your opinion.


So how can I say what I just said

AOL use to have chat rooms that where called "Men are from Mars Women are from Venus". And I played them for sex(last time I posted on eccie was before ASPD was unplugged or was it right after mmmm long time ago)Anyways many of the men on eccie are married. Almost all of the of the women in the AOL chat room where married. If played right. One could end up in a affair with many married women. Now remember AIDS at the time was needle freaks only. Every one of the women said that they think or knew that the hubby was cheating and or hobbyist. And rather than leave, they cheated also. For a few years I was meeting a new one to me about every other week. And it was always there idea. That was happy to go along with. The hobby was mostly wrapper. But BBFS was easy to find at the time. I with, house wife was so I thought, a safe from other problems, yet all could be fixed with a pill anyways. Remember AIDS was there, but not in other than drug users. I did them all BB.

edit: yes most I did not know the hubby, Or did I and did not know it!!!!

to go on
The reason I gave up doing that was it turned out that I did the wife of many guys I knew. But did not know at time when I had sex with there wife. Two where customers of mine. One was a coworkers. Another was my boss's. Many where of guys I knew from the hobby, and drank with at bars when they where shopping for a provider.
The last straw was leaving a hotel and she saw her hubby crossing the road in his car as we where coming to the same intersection. I do not think he knows the full story. He was a customer I blew off till next week to see her. As he now had free time for a meeting that did not happen he was with a provider that I knew. So at that moment I find out I'm fucking a customers wife. And wife find out I knew the provider. Well that was it for me. And she was done with me. And she dumped him, and remarried. As he was still a customer of mine. And he not knowing how she found out and was heart broken. I stopped and went for safer ground, providers. Just way to many I knew the other to be safe.

ok So now I am sure many of the guys with SO are doing BB with that SO. Can you tell me what your wife is doing and if doing it with a cover as you pound that provider you see with or without a cover??????? Are you both using that cover if used safely???

I will sign this one

OSD

Very valid OSD, maybe I'm kidding myself as I prefer BBBJ and like DATY, but I just feel it's a bit safer with cover. Treat the little guy nice and he'll be there down the road.

And it is a bit safer. even more than a bit. But still the risk is still there.

I will not jump on some one for using a cover. Most of the time we all use one. But I'm betting most do not all the time. I prefer BBBJ and have DATY with many also. But I can not jump on anyone not using one.

If you are worried about it. All you can be sure of is when you use one. As all are or have been raw dogging someone.

Lol I think your right...that was a good one jokaz

ROTFLMAO I would venture a guess that he would have about as much chance getting a Republican to tell the truth as he would getting BBFS out of you, Jenn. Originally Posted by jokacz

ROTFLMAO I would venture a guess that he would have about as much chance getting a Republican to tell the truth as he would getting BBFS out of you, Jenn. Originally Posted by jokacz

I hope you're okay with changing this to "I would venture a guess that he would have about as much chance getting a politician to tell the truth..."

If you want the truth, the truth is they all lie.

F him Jen he can go to the scum ladies to get the BB. Originally Posted by LynnT

Condoms in previous generations were often referred to as 'scum bags'.

Not that this is relevant in any way, I just find the etymology of the word interesting.

I hope you're okay with changing this to "I would venture a guess that he would have about as much chance getting a politician to tell the truth..."

If you want the truth, the truth is they all lie. Originally Posted by NormalBob

Haven't you figured out yet that I only say things like this to get a rise out of you and OSD?

I kid because I love.

Haven't you figured out yet that I only say things like this to get a rise out of you and OSD?

I kid because I love. Originally Posted by jokacz

That's why I played along with. But I sure jokacz will get me another day LOL

but really how much does a dog chaser get a hour.

but really how much does a dog chaser get a hour. Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

Aren't they paid by the dog?