Taking the time to read a Providers Ad...

and happy will be if I can get my a$$ to sa meet you once again!

Heather, I feel your pain hon! Just today, I deleted six emails from ?????? who knows because they didn't bother to leave a name, no handle, no information...but, one did say he was sitting at the Palm restaurant and wanted me to do an overnighter! Suuuure thing psycho!!

I totally understand your frustration with this issue. I usually reply to them what my process/ protocol is and I add my website link to where they can find this information. Believe it or not, it works.

Thats how you find out who wants to respectfully accomodate You verses who wants to Solely be accomodated. I appreciate the Gents that are patient enough to follow my "Getting Acquainted" process . . and when that time comes, I express my appreciation. Generously.

i just got my ass chewed out about five minutes ago for doing that very thing heather.

So, I had an appointment this last Monday (wink wink), and I was actually traveling and staying in a hotel. My hobby PC is a desktop, so my only link to fantasy land was webmail, ghetto phone, and notes I had made from eccie before I left. I don't dare access this site or p411 from my work laptop or the hotel's public PC's, so I was kind of flying blind when trying to make appointments (couldn't book before I left due to fluid schedule). Anyway, I was worried that I was going to get something wrong, like the fee for example.

This might offer a perspective from the "other side" when well-meaning gents goof something up.

Question for the men: when traveling do you use a "hobby laptop" to access eccie/p411, or do you brave the hotel public computers?

I think half don't and that's being conservative.... after ads are posted WITH my website listed in it I get emails and pm's asking every gotd@mn thing that can be asked because they didn't bother to look at my website or reviews AT all..... they just saw TITS and their mind went "fuck it".

Question for the men: when traveling do you use a "hobby laptop" to access eccie/p411, or do you brave the hotel public computers? Originally Posted by JacobJ

I will always use my own personal laptop with my own access to the Internet for such things.

...I will just post an ad with nothing in it except my signature block....maybe that might get more attention. LOL!!!... Originally Posted by heatherone

Still looking and can't find it...

I hope things have gotten better Heather, heck you may even wanna try adding a link to this thread too...

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I feel ya girl.... If they send me an email asking a question already answered somewhere in my info, I dont even reply. If they already know all of my info and send me an incomplete inquiry.... i still dont answer. Sure some men dont like this. But I state this all in my ad, signature, and showcase etc... sorry boys.

Do I read and understand what is written in an ad? Of course, now do I follow it word for word? Hell no, if I did, I would have never met all the delicious ladies of ECCIE(and other sites), and would probably still be searching for that first one that did meet my needs.

Guidelines are what they are. It never hurts anyone to ask questions. I am glad that I don't follow those "rules" and have met many nice ladies here and on a few other sites by not doing so. Hopefully, most of those same ladies have a somewhat similar take on meeting me as well

"Jay"
aka biggu4DATY

my favorite is when they post " see my profile for donations/specials" and there is absolutely nothing there or when their ad states "no text messages" and you call only to get no answer and a text message in return. I try to read and inform myself but I want to speak with the ladies. I feel it brings 'personality' to the entire process and speaking to someone can, for me at least, be a deal breaker. I enjoy a bit of a personal connection and you just can't get that from PM's or emails.

Straight and to the point.

NO damn text messages I don't want to talk to your SO via a text message. I want to here a womans sweet voice. I made a date with Lafemnekita some time ago and ended up with the most screwed up situation I have run across. I emailed her through her web site and the appointment and money was all fucked up. Her web site was in the control of some bitch that took her computer. Her web site is still unused as the bitch here in Texas changed the pass word so Nikita can't access her site. The phone number is not the one Nikita uses.
Any how what I started to say is I don't like to text as I don't know who is on the keyboard. I will request through the email but to sew up the date I want a warm voice.