Would You Date A Hobbyist/Provider?

malya...oh ok ..i saw it diffent side than you did....how it come off from that other post.. spring in the air... Originally Posted by foxyred73

LOL I am the ultimate GFE

Been there, done that; in Oahu. Although I only let her bring home her female friends, I knew she had "working lunches" with the guy friends. Oh, the memories...

It would all depend on the connection I have with her...

Btdt no way Jose....fool me once shame on me fool me twice shame you

If I had any self confidence I probably would.

I agree with most it can be done.... I've done it twice and kinda close story to what Darter said:I've done it a twice and once it lasted for quite some time. We both kept doing what we were doing before, but had our "couple" times. Then we went back into my hobby and her providing and it went downhill. We are still friends and she is back to providing. The other was different we knew each other before hobby and stumbled into each other on or with a session. It lasted a good while too. They both were different but still fun. She has moved on... and is in another profession down in the south....
. I haven't seen her in a long time, but FB, text and call from time to time.

Absolutely not. If you want to date, go outside the hobby world and do that. Knowinlgy dating a hobbyist or provider is not worth the trouble.

Fellas, would you be happy with knowing I am blowing a load in your gf's mouth?

I would think not...

sixx

No, No, THREE TIMES NO.

i would never share somebody i cared about

^^ agree .. once im dating on a "serious" level i pull out and stop all the shenanigans and i give him all my attention and make sure hes the only one that im pleasing... but everyones situation is diff..

with that said i may be UTR LEXXXI DDS very soon but will keep u updated ..

i guess open communication will solve most of the issues
but in the end
it dose ends up breaking some ones heart

Wow this is a good one.. I met a hobbyist in Dec and we clicked so well saw him twice every week for awhile and its crazzy how he knows what I like, what tampons I use, he even knows what kind of extensions to buy for me. He is sweet, and we decided to start dating, I told him he could see other providers but I dont wanna know about it just go do it lol.. There is a connection that I cant explain we just get along great and we have fun together, I love talking to him every single day.. its crazzy... but hey when you are really comfortable with that person why not give it a shot you never know... lol..

I think if we both came to an understanding that, even though there is a conection emotionally and sexually and, we both can keep an open relationship I see why not. But, the two must understand it is an open relationship but once the two are together and intimate when having sex than its more of a connection and it should be a connection that you only have for one another. Now, if it gets more serious and you know that you are falling for eachother in love than the hobbying would have to stop to build on that relationship that loving connection and move forward together and never look back or bring up the past. Thats my opinion cause if I got serious with someone than im committing my all to that person my mind, body, and soul and i would expect the same from her!!! Cause if not than theres the door!! Lol..

Very intriguing question. I think if you found someone you really connected with emotionally and sexually and vice versa then it does not matter what the occupation is. That being said yes at some point the hobby portion will come up but as long as it is agreed upon at the very beginning what each is expecting before dating then I see nothing wrong with it.

Great points everyone Im glad this topic came up so I can see everyone's views and opinions. This is all new to me because I have never felt a connection like this with anyone although I just recently hobbied more than I used too lol.. but I think its starting to bother him about me hobbying.. hes been hinting at me about going back to stripping or getting a job. I need to have a nice chat with him and get more info about how he really feels. I do not see many people so I think that helps im busy with school and stuff so Im limited to seeing anyone..