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Personnally a little get to know you time is a good thing. But alcohol is not a good thing before sex I have discovered. It fraks with my meds and I can't get off because of the damned CONDOM dulling my sensitivity just enough... And might I just say I hate living in an age with fatal, or life long and drug resistant STD's. Because...CONDOMS SUCK. But they are definitely better than the the risk.
Well Ryan, Elena kind of tried to point that out (to her, the OP) in her post, stating that you can run your business your way or you can run your business based solely on what the gentlemen that want to take advantage of you might answer. I'm not making the statement that you personally would do that, and most in KC would not - but there are more than a few here would sense immediately how green she is (so green she pisses grass - that's just an observation based on direct experience and previous discussion threads) and absolutely take advantage.

Like I said, I'm off tonight, my bad - carry on, I'm done.
Sorry, my mistake - I said I was off tonight. Forgive me, carry on and answer away! I suppose if she is interested in what we might have to say she can ask for access to the Powder Room or post it in Infoshare.

Seriously, mea culpa. Originally Posted by Jackie Devlin

Your post makes sense to me now. I do agree that a post in one of those areas also would probably be helpful. I was really confused why your post implied that only the private thoughts of the providers mattered, but it was a simple misunderstanding.
No problem Ryan, I think maybe I should just go to bed . . . long ass day.
So this week we are pertending this is not a hooker board??
i usually like to converse a bit prior...through pm.. some flirtation. Then once face to face.. i go with the flow he sets. If hes nervous.. ill take the time to ease his mind and make him comfy. If he is super nervous and acting oddly.. then i think id be uncomfy too and then they whole tone sets whether we continue..thus why i dont see newbies. most men know the routine and mild nervousness is expected. And on first visits, i am normally dressed very classy... i dont normally answer naked or in lingerie until the next visit...

Normally i dont drink... or offer it. I like it to be memorable and both of us in our right mind. But i will open wine or champagne if he brings it..and enjoy a glass with him
So this week we are pertending this is not a hooker board?? Originally Posted by big country
By the book, we're not allowed to directly address a topic in an open public forum that implies the exchange of money for a sexual act, as it may be construed to be discussion of an illegal activity and not only expose the board to liability but cause the poster(s) to be sanctioned through moderation.
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dang this threAD took a bad turn. I was hoping to get some flirting in.
So this week we are pertending this is not a hooker board?? Originally Posted by big country
It is? OMG, I so took a wrong turn. I was looking to post on angelsRus.




N2, as always you're a true gent.

I will always admit when I'm wrong and I'm wrong. She did ask for mainly the guys to answer and providers.

Carry on folks.
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can you whip me hear now LOL
And to answer the question, I expect at least a few minutes of getting a feel with the girl. I personally dont actually like it when I open a door to an incall and the girl is wearing lingerie the first time I meet them, because normally they hide behind the door while opening it.

I do prefer outcalls and normally offer something to drink and a seat for a quick chat. Now the second, third visits I am perfectly fine with the girl instantly molesting me as they walk in the door.

The exception to this is if there is a girl who has a very low donation and I expect a little less from the experience. Then it is all about my penis and not about my brain at all. Originally Posted by bigryan222

O WOW!!! for YEARS I have just answered the door in lingerie. I am curious as to why you do not like that. Is it just due to them being behind the door when they open it? I've never heard anything to dispel my love to wear cute lingerie until now....

Please tell me more BRyan

xo
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I love it when a lady wears lingerie, first visit or not! Street clothes just don't set the proper tone. And if they are wearing lingerie, you kind of have a feeling they're putting some effort into it.
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I love it when a lady wears lingerie, first visit or not! Street clothes just don't set the proper tone. And if they are wearing lingerie, you kind of have a feeling they're putting some effort into it. Originally Posted by Smoking Monkey
On this I could not disagree more. I agree with something Sinbad said a long time ago...by the time the woman is wearing ingerie, clothing is optional. I prefer unwrapping a woman in sexy but ordinary clothing than lingerie any day of the week.
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  • 04-16-2012, 07:12 AM
J, I think most guys would be thrilled to see you answer in lingerie. I know I would. It is a bit do a let down to me when a lady answers the door is street clothes. I can see that anywhere.


O WOW!!! for YEARS I have just answered the door in lingerie. I am curious as to why you do not like that. Is it just due to them being behind the door when they open it? I've never heard anything to dispel my love to wear cute lingerie until now....

Please tell me more BRyan

xo
J Originally Posted by SpanishJewel
I like answering the door very classy, almost librarian or teacher look..... and then undressing down to the bad girl....