Oh, come on, China Doll!
What can possibly be even remotely degrading about a man playing with a girl's hair while having sex? That's only natural.
I'm sorry to inform you, but anything that you find degrading in that is simply your own mental baggage that you're bringing into the bedroom.
Nothing more.
Sex is much better when you leave your baggage outside the bedroom!
Originally Posted by Fast Gunn
I'm sorry but I was under the impression the word used was 'pulling' not 'playing'
Why are there some guys on here tonight that are trying hard to start a fight? Get over yourselves already! Let's play nice!
IMHO
A woman can ask you not to touch her in a certain place, and it does not make her any less of a GFE then anyone else. For example, I know women who do not like their feet touched. It doesn't matter what part of her body it is, or the reasons why she doesn't want it touched...just use mutual respect all the way around and there's no problem.