I call it "Buyers Remorse". Has happened more times than I'd care to share. Get all worked up talking to a gal and then get to see her and afterwards the reason I feel dirty is because of my own Buyers Remorse Shame. ... Originally Posted by Von Spielervon spieler - sorry that those visits werent deliteful.
imho, if one really has to have a nut, then that might be part of what's causing buyers' remorse.
Yeah, but at least they get to keep the money. We just make "deposits". LOL Originally Posted by ithyphallicusgreat cumback, ithy!!
I would say good research is the key, I've always been a quality over quantity guy anyway. ...great thoughts, bojulay. not every time, but the vast majority of my times i go with "quality over quantity". if i really need one, emerald and royal ln arent that far away.
The rest have been really good to fantastic, and I don't mind a little more of a donation to get what I'm looking for.
To me ho-hum just to get laid isn't an option. Originally Posted by bojulay
I don't get to hobby near as often as many of you, so I tend to put a lot of effort into research before I see a lady for the first time. I try to get a feel for chemistry before I ever set an appointment. So far it has worked well. I'm also a huge fan of the repeat visit. Given the exceptional ladies that I have met, there has to be a very strong attraction to get me to roll the dice with someone I haven't seen. As Bojulay said, it's all about quality. Thanks to my brothers who are willing TOFTT and report back. Without you, my game doesn't play. Originally Posted by Calebditto!!!
Patience does have it's rewards. I have always been somewhat afraid that even with due diligence in researching a particular lady, that my experience will be the opposite of anything written by others.as you state, i've learned over the years, that Patience does have it's rewards. one of the advantages is my bank account doesnt take a hit. and one of the disadvantages is that my favs' bank accounts dont get filled up. sorry ladies.
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But then again, horny right now does often trump patience. Originally Posted by cheatercheater
and i've learned over the years that there are many solutions to "horny right now". cos it doesnt have to trump patience, at least in my book.
...von, again, i feel your pain.
There have been more times than not where on my drive home I shake my head after I decided to stop for a 30 min or hour rendevous and tell myself "You shoulda gone on home and gone to bed." This is usually preceded by me saying "She's been using the same photoshopped pics since ASPD/Pre ECCIE days. She really should update her pics to reflect what she is now". Originally Posted by Von Spieler
if you're looking for advice, here's some from an old Firesign Theatre skit - Live it or Live with it!
meaning enjoy it or deal with it.
even better, be proactive instead of reactive.
hope your next encounter is filled with delites!!
