Prag, you sir hit the proverbial nail on the head.
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- Guest071313-5
- 07-30-2012, 03:29 PM
- Miss.Nadia
- 07-30-2012, 05:14 PM
Hi all,
Interesting topic! I am a very new provider and already encountered this myself. A client chose to see me & had a great time. Later he tells me another provider got jealous on that account. How silly, childish, and just plain awful to guilt someone for exercising their right of free choice!
The way I look at it is men get enough drama from their wives; the provider is a temporary escape from that and should not be someone who adds to the stress. This is directed at any one in particular, but think about it...if you are a person who cannot check your insecurities and emotions at the door, then the hobby is not for you. You'd be better off working for minimum wage somewhere than being miserable and spoiling it for others.
I agree with the sentiment that it probably has more to do with discontent with where those dollars went. My response is that if you run your business well and take care of your client and yourself, you will have nothing to worry about. The client owes a provider nothing outside the proper booking time etiquette.
Personally, my policy is to always provide objective referrals, excellent communication and my service and reviews speak for themselves. This goes for how I feel about and relate with other providers, too. I am a professional and conduct myself as such. Let's keep it classy and be supportive of one another...no need to get jealous!
Interesting topic! I am a very new provider and already encountered this myself. A client chose to see me & had a great time. Later he tells me another provider got jealous on that account. How silly, childish, and just plain awful to guilt someone for exercising their right of free choice!
The way I look at it is men get enough drama from their wives; the provider is a temporary escape from that and should not be someone who adds to the stress. This is directed at any one in particular, but think about it...if you are a person who cannot check your insecurities and emotions at the door, then the hobby is not for you. You'd be better off working for minimum wage somewhere than being miserable and spoiling it for others.
I agree with the sentiment that it probably has more to do with discontent with where those dollars went. My response is that if you run your business well and take care of your client and yourself, you will have nothing to worry about. The client owes a provider nothing outside the proper booking time etiquette.
Personally, my policy is to always provide objective referrals, excellent communication and my service and reviews speak for themselves. This goes for how I feel about and relate with other providers, too. I am a professional and conduct myself as such. Let's keep it classy and be supportive of one another...no need to get jealous!
- ALAYA
- 07-30-2012, 07:21 PM
RITE ON MISS NADIA
- Guest071313-5
- 07-30-2012, 07:23 PM
Hi all,+1
Interesting topic! I am a very new provider and already encountered this myself. A client chose to see me & had a great time. Later he tells me another provider got jealous on that account. How silly, childish, and just plain awful to guilt someone for exercising their right of free choice!
The way I look at it is men get enough drama from their wives; the provider is a temporary escape from that and should not be someone who adds to the stress. This is directed at any one in particular, but think about it...if you are a person who cannot check your insecurities and emotions at the door, then the hobby is not for you. You'd be better off working for minimum wage somewhere than being miserable and spoiling it for others.
I agree with the sentiment that it probably has more to do with discontent with where those dollars went. My response is that if you run your business well and take care of your client and yourself, you will have nothing to worry about. The client owes a provider nothing outside the proper booking time etiquette.
Personally, my policy is to always provide objective referrals, excellent communication and my service and reviews speak for themselves. This goes for how I feel about and relate with other providers, too. I am a professional and conduct myself as such. Let's keep it classy and be supportive of one another...no need to get jealous!
- Headkeeper
- 07-30-2012, 08:57 PM
A question if I may. If provider "A" does not respond to referral requests from providers "B", "C" and "D" would that constitute jealousy on provider "A"'s behalf?
- Dragon_inc
- 07-31-2012, 02:47 PM
Hell hjones it the numbrer one I am jealous of .... If a lady post an add he sees her, I think he hides out at the city limits and snags them on the way in. Just look at all the reviews he has under his belt. Enough joking, If a provider was to lay clame to me, and get jealous I was seeing others. Then me and her would need to have a talk and set down some rules of conduct... ALAYA wants me real bad every time she cums to town. But she likes to share me as well, cause it gives her a chance to rest up.... Have fun be safe and lets all get along.
Have fun be safe and lets all get along.
- Harley Diablo
- 07-31-2012, 02:58 PM
Damn Dragon I have to catch them first, you wear them out and send them home and then we miss out. We are lucky we get some pretty good ladies coming through here and I hope I have made some good friends. They all treat me well and I enjoy the company of all I can pay for. Unfortunately the business is getting slow and $$ slow so have to back up a little. Also trying to go while I can before I get to damn old.
Guys get out and see these ladies so they will keep coming. Some have told me they post and dont get calls and just take us off the lists.
Enjoy the hobby while it is available.
Guys get out and see these ladies so they will keep coming. Some have told me they post and dont get calls and just take us off the lists.
Enjoy the hobby while it is available.
- Guest032213
- 08-01-2012, 05:14 AM
hjones MUCH agreed! SHARING IS CARING! Lets spread the love , if its meant to be it will come back around to us... men like a diff flava, just like we do! hooked at the hip is not in fashion.. friends & foe & then we fawks more..Ladie's if you act childish- the men will not return. i love men seeing other ladies, hell i might wanna see them 2, so i ask mmm was she good? hehe , im so naughty.. i need 2 hit the road on 20 east and catch them blue balls , speaking offff MOOCHES! LEXUS- La here i cummmmm!!
- wildwooly1
- 08-01-2012, 07:17 AM
Theres always gonna be a little bit of jealousy when it involves men and women its just human nature and yes a lot of it stems from the dollar !
When client A takes out provider A and have a good time and when i say this the client enjoys hisself and then he tips or gives provider A some type gift or just makes a longer appointment than he gives the next provider - it makes the other provider wonder why didnt he book me for 3 hours or why didnt he give me this or that.
Same goes for clients when they see a review and they see some service that a provider gave another client but didnt offer it to him it tends to make a client wonder why and so on and so forth.
Jealousy or envy ? who knows what to call it but its always there and the majority of times nothing is ever said about it but im sure it happens when there are glowing reviews for one provider then a somewhat not so glowing review for others - its human nature to wonder why - because we all strive to do better at everything and lets face it the hobby is a competitive business !
One thing a lot of people dont understand a lot of times its not the service but the attitude and personality that makes a session better than others and it goes both ways for clients as well as providers.
The main thing is to enjoy your time with each other !
When client A takes out provider A and have a good time and when i say this the client enjoys hisself and then he tips or gives provider A some type gift or just makes a longer appointment than he gives the next provider - it makes the other provider wonder why didnt he book me for 3 hours or why didnt he give me this or that.
Same goes for clients when they see a review and they see some service that a provider gave another client but didnt offer it to him it tends to make a client wonder why and so on and so forth.
Jealousy or envy ? who knows what to call it but its always there and the majority of times nothing is ever said about it but im sure it happens when there are glowing reviews for one provider then a somewhat not so glowing review for others - its human nature to wonder why - because we all strive to do better at everything and lets face it the hobby is a competitive business !
One thing a lot of people dont understand a lot of times its not the service but the attitude and personality that makes a session better than others and it goes both ways for clients as well as providers.
The main thing is to enjoy your time with each other !
- sovanna
- 08-02-2012, 03:38 PM
I don't get jealous. The hobby is different for everyone. We all share. Plenty of ladies and gents to see. Happy hobbying.
- Paven
- 08-07-2012, 03:36 PM
This isn't high school, these men aren't our boyfriends, it's a business. A lot of men want variety that's why their here. I am happy to give a reference for a fella when another lady inquires about him.
- Guest071313-5
- 08-07-2012, 05:17 PM
This isn't high school, these men aren't our boyfriends, it's a business. A lot of men want variety that's why their here. I am happy to give a reference for a fella when another lady inquires about him.Speaking of that, I am kicking myself in the chins that I missed the Paven experience when she visited.
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- Paven
- 08-07-2012, 05:22 PM
Well shucks beezdat I've been there two times this year! Where you were you? lol
Where you were you? lol
- Harley Diablo
- 08-07-2012, 05:30 PM
Well I think this thread has run its course, I am jealous of everyone. At my age I only have a few left to enjoy and damn man I want it all. lol.
- Guest071313-5
- 08-08-2012, 12:24 AM