why is it so hard to get screened

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Don't have p411 myself but doesn't seem to have hindered me.

I've never had a problem getting screened either. I do want to follow the proper protocol and make it easy for a provider to screen me. I'm sure some get lots of requests so the easier I make for them, the better it will end up for me

I like the way you think jg

I may have been making a couple of screening mistakes.

My first issue is, I haven't really been asking the previous providers if it is ok to use them as a reference. . Originally Posted by JG4DATY

Since im a reference friendly provider, i assume it comes with the territory....to be used as a ref
So no offense is taken, if im used as a ref w/o the gent seeking my permission first.
Providing a quick & speedy reference, to me, is viewed as a service "after" the service

wow all the love thanks to all i havent had time to read them yet but will on monday

.Nena Knox. ==> truly refreshing and so wonderful to see you have that thought as part of your business plan.....

.....somewhere along the line I seem to remember seeing a little avatar like attachment as part of their tag lines by some ladies indicating they were "Provider Reference Friendly" or something like that (perhaps it was Likinikki??)

and above all I think it is the thing a gentleman should ask of anyone he might be seeing and in addition ask the guidelines of the person being contacted (email, PM, phone, etc).....

The whole purpose of being screened is so that the Provider feels comfortable meeting you and having a session with you. Even when I was sitting at 30 reviews on this site, I have still been screened by Providers, I still have to provided my P411 info and also references. Sometimes the Providers have contacted my references and sometimes they have gone further and gone through my list of reviews and contacted those ladies, I had a couple of Providers contact the ladies that gave me OK's to see if I was an ok client.

The way I see it, if you want to see a New to You Provider, how difficult is it to copy and paste a previous PM with all the info and resend it?


For example (from a recent PM):

Hi, I'm Levi, (age), (race), (height), (weight), (hair color), (eye color) and I wear glasses. I work during the day so I normally make evening incall appointments, say at 6:30 to 7pm.

References with reviews (each review has links to their info):
LaylaCream (visiting provider) : http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=523503
DallaRain (visiting provider) : http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=519846
Cambree (visiting provider) : http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=506902
Liz4fun (local provider) : http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=426562

and you are more than welcomed to contact any of the ladies that I've reviewed if you choose to.

I will send you a PM from P411 account that way you have access to my info on there.

Levi
My Phone Number
My Hobby Email Originally Posted by levi tab

Also please add when you saw said lady and how she would recall you. A description of yourself like you listed and possibly something that you spoke about to help trigger her memory. Rather than "Hi my name is John and I have brown hair and she'll remember me by my email address". Uh yeah right, not likely. The more information that is included in your reference request the better.

Plus another thing, references don't last forever fellas! I can't believe how many guys named "John with brown hair" lol ask me for a reference when they saw me a year or even two years ago one time! Are you kidding me? Unless you came in painted blue and on fire it's not likely! lol I personally only give references up to three months, I tour a lot and meet many people in different cities all over tarnation. I need the fella to be more fresh in my head so that I may give the lady pertinent information about him.

I am very thorough and it gets a bit annoying when I ask for a reference and all I get is a "Yeah he's cool". Come to find out she might not even remember who the fellow is but since she's had no issues with anyone everyone gets a "Yeah he's cool". Sorry I need more to go on than that!

Sorry didn't mean to go off track here but I thought these were important points to cover as well and they do pertain to screening. From both sides.

levi tab thanks i thing that if i would present the pm just like you showed that would solve a lot of my issues . As for the others thanks for all the input . Some providers must realize that time is $$$ and some clients dont have the time to go through excessive sreening . As for my run on sentences ....my professor in my final year of college was correct when she said " you have no business graduating from this university with the poor gramer skills that you have." go horns !!!

also a thanks to Paven would love to hear a reply from the 2 provides that i listed as to why when i give them as references that the providers say that they can never get intouch with them

Just have a cool name lol

reference my comment in Post #21 ==> look at Likinikki's reference friendly note (totally classy!!) at bottom of her new advertisement:
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=559249

Problems getting verified usually means:

1. Hobbyist didn't read a provider's screening requirements
2. Hobbyist didn't meet screening requirements
3. References aren't returning replies
4. References are outdated
5. Hobbyist has alerts posted

Please remember that YOU may not be the only request that a provider receives. Some providers get MANY requests through other sites like P411...TER...EROS...ECCIE, etc., so PATIENCE is very much appreciated.

I tell everyone that contacts me...that I will return a reply "as soon as I receive a reply from their references." If I don't receive a reply within the week...I try to send a status PM...but, every once-in-awhile, I do fail to send a status...so, communication from YOUR end helps us to keep track.

As a relative newbie with only a couple of references, thanks for explaining what information to provide when listing a referral. Looks like I've already screwed it up a little bit but live and learn I guess

Not all ladies require you to let them know that your using them as a ref. As that's *time* consuming for hobbyists.

Best thing to do, is to make sure when your BCD with said provider reference, that you ASK her IF she is vouch friendly. Meaning, will she vouch for you if another provider contacts her on your behalf??
If she verbalizes yes. Then all you need to do is to have the lady/ies you wish to meet. Is to contact your ref. via PM or email. And make sure those ladies you wish to meet. Provide links to her reviews/websites (to your ref). So your ref. knows that she is being contacted by a legit provider, for a vouch on your behalf.

Secondly, Do NOT disclose your references contact info. UNLESS your references tell you it's OKAY. A board handle/website or review link of your reference, is sufficient means of how the new lady you wish to meet, can contact your references. Originally Posted by Wicked Milf

Here is my take on screening. First thing I learned is that if you are looking for an HHR that one dies or goes to the bottom of the priority list, many days will pass, or weeks, but then maybe the rent comes due and you get a pm that says something like call me I'm naked waiting for you.

Next up if you want a lady to rememeber you then write a review that is interesting but honest. Let the provider know you are using her for a reference, if they go WHO well that ain't going to work.

Be sure to include all that they ask. Along with some chit chat, like I was just browsing the review and caught xyz's review, and I thought wow what a great lady, then I flipped over to your show case and I knew you were exactly what I am looking for, I very much want to meet you.

Avoid any crass statements like I can't wait to COT, etc.

Be cordual treat the ladies like ladies and you will find the hobby easier and more rewarding. After all you want them to pretend to be your GF then you need to pretend to be the BF in your pursuit a bit. Turn on a little charm, it don't hurt too much.

If it took you 4 days to reach a lady by phone, txt, PM etc well when using her as a reference think that the provider hasn't got time to hunt her down like you did.

Screen out in advance, not when you are ready to romp right this minute. I try to get the screening done at least a week in advance.

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