Do I really need to know?

Malaya, please give me a chance...

I wasn't saying that you or anyone else is seeing twenty friends a day. Nothing like that. The frequency isn't even the issue for me. I probably could have done a better job of starting the thread. And I didn't mean to offend with the business analogy.

My comment, though somewhat specific in this particular instance was meant as a more general thought about topics of discussion on first dates. I have had this sort of discussion with dates after I became a "regular," but never on the first date. I was just musing about why it would be the thought on her mind that needed to be shared? I have heard other guys with similar experiences but different specifics.

... turning my thoughts back to Malaya. I'm sorry I offended you. That was never my intent. I think you are awesome and I remember awesome bits of conversation with you. I also remember you weren't all that interested in lounging around talking the afternoon away when there were much more fun things to be doing. Originally Posted by Rover14

You're fine. I do get that from guys a lot though. And I was low on chocolate yesterday so was a little testy LOL. Sometimes girls feel the need to defend themselves when guys make comments like they think we've seen a crud load of guys. So I wasn't sure if you had made a comment to her. I do like to chat because I think in order for there to be a good sexual connection it starts with at least knowing someone. But depending on my mood I might just pounce when you walk in the door and save the pillow talk for afterwards. But I agree and see your point if it was not warranted. If you made no comment for her to feel the need to defend herself then perhaps it shouldn't have been mentioned. Especially on a first date.

My apologies for being snippy. I think I should keep chocolate on hand so I don't get hormonal easily LOL.

I will remember to bring chocolate.

I like conversation. I like being pounced on as well. I seem to remember taking a shower then all of the sudden...

A very good friend of mine has repeatedly told me over our twenty five year friendship that it is often a good idea to just open the door and toss in a box of chocolates and come back later. He said it always made for a great reception when you return.

I will remember to bring chocolate.

I like conversation. I like being pounced on as well. I seem to remember taking a shower then all of the sudden...

A very good friend of mine has repeatedly told me over our twenty five year friendship that it is often a good idea to just open the door and toss in a box of chocolates and come back later. He said it always made for a great reception when you return. Originally Posted by Rover14

ROFLMFAO! That is a good idea!! Feed the tiger before visiting!

Ok so the lesson learned here is to eat a box of choclates after getting fucked by Rover14....

Ok so the lesson learned here is to eat a box of choclates after getting fucked by Rover14.... Originally Posted by SENSUALCITA

Damn, I'm going to be busy.

I get what your saying. regardless of how many men they fuck in an hour or a day.
It's TMI to be relating to the date within her presence at the moment. Most respectable men who Enjoy the hobby & women, as not just a means of treating women like an object as other men. Those kind respectable men simply do NOT want to know how many men the woman he's with, fucks/sucks in a day.

There's some things that need not be expressed!

So just finished with the first round and settled into some chit-chat while cooling down and recovering for round two, when she felt the need to share with me. I put on my best listening face and responded with "hmmm."

Do I really need to know that she only sees two visitor's a day? Except not today because I already wore her out. She's going to crash when we are done...

I don't know where to being on my thoughts about her comments. Really? Only two clients a day? Is this supposed to make me feel better? I'm not stupid. I know this is a business for the vast majority of the ladies and that means providing service when the demand presents itself. I can't believe it is any different than other business models. If the "store" is closed people go down the street and the opportunity is lost. I know some days will be dead and others will be slammed. That is reality, I am OK with it and have put it out of my mind. Do we really need to talk about it and get me thinking about it all over again?



I'm just asking. The visit itself was pretty damn good. the second thrill worked out fine after a she did some sweet work on my junk. Originally Posted by Rover14

I think that even if a provider says she only see's 1-2 guys a day........you never really know.......some of us don't have the time to just fuck around all day hehe pun intended lalalala.........just giving my honest opinion

I also never talk about the hobby (I have shared a few details with guys I have been seeing for years or when a guy has a question or is just interested-but I would never make someone feel like they are on a assembly line lol) I like to think of our time as a casual encounter rather than a scheduled arrangement

This rant sounds a bit girly to me. Many guys bitch about us " bitching" yet you're upset about the count we see, or better out, What we tell you??! Lmao c'mon folks... Remember where you are. Xo

Put*

I'm sorry Ezra, it wasn't a rant. I like the illusion, as I think most guys do. We know the game we are playing but that doesn't mean we need to be crude, crass, rude, or insensitive. That last one is tough though 'cause we are guys. Anyway, when the illusion is burst it is a bit of a bummer. I'm just tossing this out there, you can take the information and use it or not. Doesn't really matter to me. What does matter is the conversation. I do take notes and try to apply them to better my experiences.

For my notes, what exactly was the intent behind this post?

Put* Originally Posted by ExoticEzra

... what exactly was the intent behind this post? Originally Posted by Rover14

Foreplay?

Well I hope she didnt mean Putz....

I get what your explaining Rover14 its not like I want to know how many providers a hobbyist does in a day. Its just not good pillow talk...

JohnnyYanks your so adorable ill two play you anytime!!! Im back lets go play pool & drink some beer!!!...

JohnnyYanks your so adorable ill two play you anytime!!! Im back lets go play pool & drink some beer!!!... Originally Posted by SENSUALCITA

Now that's how to foreplay!

Personally, I like to know if there is someone scheduled within two hours after seeing me, because if there is, I want to ensure the lady has absolutely nothing left to give. I want to wear it OUT.

Consider it a Rolf Amundsen thing.


Dogg

It's kinda funny, there was a time (and this may be TMI for some LOL) when I had a half hr special for 100 and I seriously saw at least 10 dudes a day! I remember people calling around 4pm asking if they would be the first of the day LMAO! Suuuuuuure buddy! And yeah, my vagina was totally sore! Champion pussy! LOL jk Then there were those guys who would get turned on and ask me how much cock I had! Yowzers! I wonder if they knew I wasn't lying lol But anyway, if you didn't ask, I definitely didn't tell.