When does time start.

There are too many abreviations - BCD? I know it is probably real easy, but sitting here al least 5 minutes trying to figure it out - LOL Originally Posted by travelerman

BCD = Behind Closed Doors

Referring actually to what goes on there...

Several providers have rates posted for multi-hour "dates"--dinner, drinks and "dessert".
After you've seem them a couple of times, some will be willing to go to lunch or dinner w/you afterwards if they're not busy. Just keep in mind they're business women, not girlfriends and spend accordingly and be respectful of their time. Originally Posted by joesnapshot

Dead on

Thanks White Queen and Joe - you answered my question.

Traveler--
White Queen--

Still Looking, that policy has usually worked for me. And I use to insist on paying for BCD time until still half drunk I went back to my office after spending some time BCD with my S/O. I left a benjamin on the nightstand. She was not amused.

This is an area that requires frank discussion between the parties so that there is no misunderstandings and resentments.

Very well said Flinde! Every provider is different and have different *menu* items. Some of us provide this information on our ads...some don't, so take the time to read her profile, and after screening, it would be something to discuss...over the phone. Time starts...whenever you get together for most situations...depends on who you decide to see.

The most important thing is...be RESPECTFUL...especially, of our time. I had an incident where I kept a date open for a month, and the hobbyist decided to completely waste my time, and NCNS'd me in the end! Behavior like this...is what causes providers to be more inflexible with our time.

Thank you joesnapshot...very much appreciate your comments!!!