**** HOW WOULD YOU DESCRIBE A TRUE PROVIDER?? ****

I don't thinck anyone bashed a provider. Originally Posted by pyramider

Ok, fine. Then what should we call it? Because it sure as hell wasn't an attempt to offer her advice.

The caps turned me off right away. I am surprised i even took the time to read on however,
There is a big difference between "being safe" and "germ-a-phobia"

Ok, fine. Then what should we call it? Because it sure as hell wasn't an attempt to offer her advice. Originally Posted by Doove

errrrrr they told why they passed. I'm not sure what they passed up on.
As I do not read all caps.

it was kinda hard to read through all those caps...so first thing..you may wanna ad some lower case letters into your ads/threads...second...if your a safety lady..the men that like safety ladies will find you..on your showcase tell the gents your a limited "gfe"..that way they understand what your about..and just have fun and rock and roll with it...

i dont think you can really determine who is the best provider of gfe or pse or any of that because ladies and activities really do vary from one gent to another...so a lady may offer it for one man and bypass it for another..it rreally depends on where your mind frame is at the time of the visit...and who it is your with..

at any rate..good luck and be safe(screen).. and some have fun..lotsa great guys here on the board ..i have no doubt you'll start to meet some of them...

Ok, fine. Then what should we call it? Because it sure as hell wasn't an attempt to offer her advice. Originally Posted by Doove

Advice comes in many forms. It can be in what to do or what not to do, or these things work or these things do not work ...

I just have one word. LOL

Just shut up.

The girl comes here and asks for advice within the context of things not going so well for her as a provider. The implication behind that is anything but an ad. So why use it as an opportunity to mock her efforts (using one of your lame running jokes, no less)? hmmmmmm Unless of course you just can't help yourself when an opportunity presents itself to you where you can bash yet another provider.

Savannah, i think Tatiana pretty much said it best. If you follow her advice and come across as 100% genuine in doing it, then you should do fine. Good luck. Originally Posted by Doove

Doove,

I have to disagree with your interpretation of the posts you consider to 'mocking' or 'bashing!'

You're spot on with regards to Tatiana's comments but WAY off base with the rest.

MS was given advice and the reality is it gave her an opportunity to hear from others in different ways!

DD

Doove,

I have to disagree with your interpretation of the posts you consider to 'mocking' or 'bashing!'

You're spot on with regards to Tatiana's comments but WAY off base with the rest. Originally Posted by DDarkness

You think accusing her of posing the question simply to post an ad was advice? Seriously?

There is an unfortunate double standard around here. Male posters are typically given a free pass, while female posters often have their motivations openly questioned.

Jack, seriously. Who comes on here, posts a question and does not participate in the thread? If she was actively participating, then I would not have an issue with this. Otherwise, until then, that is the offhanded advice I am giving. In my eyes, a true provider would start a thread and participate. A fly by night provider would start a thread and not care about the dialogue that follows because it was really just an ad. MANY providers do this, and they usually get called out on it. Some providers will even tell you right out that ANY post they make, even if legitimate, is still an ad. Now this is not the end of the world. It has even gotten to the level of comedy as we now call them threADs. Some people just can't find the humor in it. Some people take themselves WAYYYY to seriously and need to lighten up a bit.

My comment is a general one not directed to this particular thread. Everyone of us, male or female, has (often selfish) reasons to post. There is a double standard around hers.

My comment is a general one not directed to this particular thread. Everyone of us, male or female, has (often selfish) reasons to post. There is a double standard around hers. Originally Posted by jackfengshui

Then why post in this "particular thread"?

Then why post in this "particular thread"? Originally Posted by GP

If you object to that, I am sorry.

If you object to that, I am sorry. Originally Posted by jackfengshui

I did not indicate I objected, so no apology is necessary. I do not object to it at all. I just asked a simple question. I am just trying to figure out your logic.

I do not object to it at all. Just trying to figure out your logic. Originally Posted by GP

You give me too much credit to having "logic" every time I post. It was simply what I was thinking at the moment.