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3daygetaway,
Actually, that was just one of a number of threads that have been in alert section. Some think it's the same person trying multiple handles, but who knows? There have also been times where a provider was not just robbed, but beaten as well. The point is it does happen and you never know who is on the other side of a phone call if you haven't already exchanged numbers.

Who is to say that when an established member calls that she will be in front of her computer to check your handle. If she isn't and doesn't remember your handle should she still answer your questions?

It just seems easier to me to look at their ads/showcases/websites and decide if I want to see her and go through her screening process. I have never had to do anything other than pm a provider with my phone number along with whatever other screening info she requires. When she is satisfied that I am legit, she will usually call or pm and then I feel free to talk to her about anything and everything.

I guess we will just have to disagree on weather or not a provider should discuss services with an unknown person over the phone or not. No one has any idea how many times LE or someone impersonating a known member gets hung up on or is told I don't discuss that, because they, like you, will not call back. Even if the chance is slim to none, I don't blame them a bit for being over cautious.


This business is risky enough, if I was a provider, I would want to avoid being arrested, robbed, beaten or worse at all costs. Even if it is at the cost of loosing a POTENTIAL opportunity to gain a relationship, which may or may not come to be anyway. But that's just my opinion.

... Again the question is how often is the call from LE or the thief-impersonating-a-known-member? So few times you could average it out to NEVER. Originally Posted by 3daygetaway

I had a surgery for which the mortality rate was 3% - you could average that out to NEVER too. Everyone lives. Except everyone doesn't. Three (3) of every one hundred fail to live. They fucking DIE. Not the surgeon, or the attending, or the anesthesiologist, or the RN, or the prep nurse - the patient dies. Over. Finite. Oh, well. Should've taken better care of himself. Tsk. Tsk.

I'd for sure hang up on your ass if I were a provider. Probably light you up in the PR too. Geesh.

. But that's just my opinion. Originally Posted by darter

And it is perfectly valid!
I agree there is risk and at the end of the day, jail, a beating, or a theft is much more expensive than an appointment lost.

Still, from the hobbyist perspective, especially with newer/lesser known providers, it can be a hassle.

I had a surgery for which the mortality rate was 3% - you could average that out to NEVER too. Everyone lives. Except everyone doesn't. Three (3) of every one hundred fail to live. They fucking DIE. Not the surgeon, or the attending, or the anesthesiologist, or the RN, or the prep nurse - the patient dies. Over. Finite. Oh, well. Should've taken better care of himself. Tsk. Tsk.

I'd for sure hang up on your ass if I were a provider. Probably light you up in the PR too. Geesh. Originally Posted by JohnnyYanks

+1

I get PMs asking if I do greek and I will let someone know that's not currently on my "menu" I don't see anything wrong with that. Originally Posted by Secret_Amore

Unfortunately, the law doesn't care what we think is right or wrong. The guy asking the question could be law enforcement, and when standing in front of the judge, try telling the judge "I didn't see anything wrong with it."

The judge doesn't care about what we think is right or wrong. There are laws in place regardless of what you or I think. If a person decides to do something that they know darn well can get their ass thrown in jail or penalize them financially $2000, well that's a decision each of us on our own will make. People can admit to illegal activity all day long, in the same way I can drive 90 miles per hour on the highway every single day when I know the speed limit is 55. All because I have a radar detector doesn't mean I won't get caught by the latest technology out there. And all of this because the reason is:

we want to hear in your voice if you are into it Originally Posted by 3daygetaway

Ok. Go for it providers. It sucks when your friend calls you from jail 7 days after you gave her the heads up. It happens.

If someone takes an interest in me and decides they might what to spend some time with me but they have questions like is greek on the menu? and say they really love greek what am I suppose to say "I don't discuss services" and take the chance of them coming to see me and them leaving disappointed cause they didn't get to do something they really like and I wouldn't tell them before they took the time to come all the way out to see me??? o.O IDk I just like for someone, when they take the time to visit me to know what it is they will get with me, so they don't get disappointed that they didn't know my "limits" beforehand. Is that so wrong??? Originally Posted by Secret_Amore

Yes, say I don't discuss services. Yes, it is so wrong to discuss illegal activities for compensation. I don't make the law nor do I agree with half of the laws we have to abide by. But what I think or feel or agree or disagree with doesn't matter in the slightest.

I also don't answer menu questions through email or phone but I will in PMs Originally Posted by Secret_Amore

Sending a message directly from you to any person can land your tail in jail. Email, PM, text message, you name it..... if the cops can latch onto it, you're fucked if/when they do.

I had a surgery for which the mortality rate was 3% Originally Posted by JohnnyYanks

Wow, Congratulations on being one of the few to make it!

[QUOTE=PleasantSurprise;1053229 270Sending a message directly from you to any person can land your tail in jail. Email, PM, text message, you name it..... if the cops can latch onto it, you're fucked if/when they do.[/QUOTE]

And so...what are you suggesting we do to communicate the menu/requests?

Still, from the hobbyist perspective, especially with newer/lesser known providers, it can be a hassle. Originally Posted by 3daygetaway

Yes sir, that it can. But in the end it's so worth it!

Hey I agree with this but I also have my own views, no if someone comes to me with a 50 60 or 70 dollar budget I would consider this a slap in the face ( unless this is from one of my regs and I do make exceptions for them as well,,, thats just the way it is ) but if someone comes to me and says shayla I have 80 and I charge 90, shit come on down sweets, cause I love doing it, but this will not be a habit and I dont do it with everyone. Get you ATF sweets, youve got to earn your way with us girl, were better then what you would get off the streets so treat us that way. No personal pun intended but you cant just come off with a discount. And its the same with females guys wouldnt like it if we said oh my banking account is low so I need another 30 bucks, no sir, work for that money baby lol then make us come work for it all in good humor sweets and everyone else lol

What is with you. She is offering to fuck you for a specified amount and take the risks associated with that event. Pay the listed fee or go cruise Lamar. I would never ask for a discount. Try boystown across from DelRio ,for 80 you can get 15 minutes before the door hits you in the ass.

Pleasant, that was really nice of you to give the OP such a well thought out answer . I wish somebody would have done that for me back when I was a newbie.

Amore, love the new font color/ size.

The only time I would even think about questioning a rate is if there are inconsistencies in her ads and reviews. Some girls list one price in there showcase, a different rate on p411 then varrying rates listed reported in reviews. I don't mind paying but more consistency makes it easier to decide and plan who I should see.