Dom or sub?

Interesting discussion... I like an aggressive lady who takes the lead and opens things up beyond the traditional. But, like some others have mentioned, really not into the discipline or humiliation aspect. Dirty talk and a lady who is experimental and not shy about it is quite the turn-on. I tend to be a little on the shy side, so her taking the lead gets things going in the right direction!

Interesting discussion... I like an aggressive lady who takes the lead and opens things up beyond the traditional. But, like some others have mentioned, really not into the discipline or humiliation aspect. Dirty talk and a lady who is experimental and not shy about it is quite the turn-on. I tend to be a little on the shy side, so her taking the lead gets things going in the right direction! Originally Posted by bucnbeach

that's the right attitude....

It depends on the lady, her style and personality.