Strictly BDSM

A DOMME is simply a female who self-identifies as a dominant. A provider can also be a DOMME, and provide during a DOMME session.

A PROFESSIONAL DOMINATRIX typically does NOT provide sex during her sessions, although its not unheard of. And, for the record, a DOMME who provides sex is no better or worse than one who does not. Originally Posted by Krunkman

Thank you thank you thank you. I'm turned off by the artificial distinction between being a professional dominatrix and an "escort with a whip."

Surely some dominatrices are quite strict about their physical boundaries. And some escorts can't deliver a dominant vibe.

But why wouldn't someone (provider or suitor) desire to combine kink, BDSM and "hobbying" if that's really what gets that person off?

Just my opinion.

Thank you thank you thank you. I'm turned off by the artificial distinction between being a professional dominatrix and an "escort with a whip."

Surely some dominatrices are quite strict about their physical boundaries. And some escorts can't deliver a dominant vibe.

But why wouldn't someone (provider or suitor) desire to combine kink, BDSM and "hobbying" if that's really what gets that person off?

Just my opinion. Originally Posted by ToriValentine

Wow very well thought out and phrased. In my experience there seems to be a lot of compartmentalization in the professional realm. I have met some pros that have multiple websites that cater to specific market segments. When asked why the simple explanation is that clients have preconceived notions of what that service is and they do not wish to cross associate services. (Bondassage however may be the exception)

Wow very well thought out and phrased. Originally Posted by g1102

Thank you. After I posted I felt a little snarky. Adding lines like "just my opinion" are redundant, so I wish I would've left that out. No reason not to be on our best behavior here.

I also want to add that I whole-heartedly support any provider's limits, and I know many dominatrices who clearly articulate their boundaries (and enforce them) and have oodles of loyal fans.

I just don't agree that a "real" dominatrix does or doesn't do certain things. A real dominatrix dominates, and there are many ways to do that.

Can I just say, you look amazing, Renee. Let me point out what I like about your pictures, you smile. With most Doms, they have this negative snarl on their face that completely puts me off. Now, that isn't to say that guys don't like the "I'm going to rip your nuts off and spit in your face" expression, but I personally LOVE your facial expressions. I also LOVE your outfits! They are beautiful! Would you care to share where you shop? Thank you.